ANSWERS: 3
  • To be honest with you, the chances of you getting back together are probably better than the chances of you STAYING together. I don't know anyone personally, who has broken up, gotten back together, and stayed together. So to keep yourself from getting more hurt than you probably all ready are, please, move on.
  • It is difficult to say without knowing the issues that led to the split, but generally one you have split up proper, it is far more difficult to recover the relationship. It never reaches the same depth again, and another break up is common,and thi spattern repeats until a final split. Your chances are highest for a reconciliation soon. After time you will on the emotional level gravitate away from the other person and grow in separate ways. When someone I broke up with said they wanted a month apart, then get back together, I declined, saying it was better to face the issues now or not at all. Leaving it some time, is generally because someone does not want to face an issue because it is too intense or they dont want to acknowledge or work with it, it is less painful for them to abandon the relationship.
  • I agree with the previous 2 people. I just got dumped from a 1.5yr relationship about a month and a half ago now. Truth is, you guys broke up for a reason and maybe you didn't see it coming but realistically, it happened. If you were meant to be together then this wouldn't have happened, but I believe in fate and there is someone else out there for you who will want to be with you for the rest of their life as you will too. But for now you must put yourself first, he may have made a mistake, and even so, you still deserve better. Think of the good times, but believe that the good times never stop coming. Take care

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