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No, just picky! At the end of the day, if you don't want to be in a relationship with the person who has asked you out then don't say yes. It appears that all of those who have asked you out already are, to you at least, undesirable.
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Yes.
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Not necessarily; it depends on why you are turning them down. If you just don't happen to like them enough to date them, that doesn't make you stuck up. If you don't want that kind of relationship at this point in your life, you are not stuck up. If you turn down a guy because you suspect his motives, that doesn't make you stuck up. If you turn a guy down because you know that he is already in a relationship with someone else, that certainly doesn't make you stuck up ; in fact, it makes you a person of good moral character. Unless you have dozens of guys asking you out, then the sample size is not large enough to come to a conclusion about your motives for turning them down. However, if you turn down hundreds of guys because they aren't rich, handsome, professional, socially-connected, sexy, intelligent, funny or athletic enough for you, then yeah, maybe you are stuck up. If you really want a special someone in your life and are still turning down a lot of guys, then maybe you aren't in the right circle of friends to find that one-of-a-kind fellow. Broaden your horizons a bit, and maybe that special someone will become aware of your good qualities and want to get to know you better. Maybe someone that you are attracted to isn't aware that you would like him to ask you out. Unless he is already in a committed relationship, why don't you start doing the asking? You might get turned down a time or two, but it gets easier with practice. And given your previous experience with turning other people down, you will hopefully know that it is probably nothing personal. BTW, you haven't told us why you are asking the question. Perhaps someone who was turned down by you has levelled this accusation at you. If so, just ignore it ; it's just part of the old 'the best defence is a good offence' tactic to make themselves feel better. They might see you that way, but that doesn't make it true. I hope this helps.
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Depends on your reasons. However, it's all a matter of opinion. No one says that you have to date any guy. If you're happy being by yourself, then stay single. Utlimately, it's your decision and that doesn't make you "stuck up," but rather choosy or just wanting to lbe independent.
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It depends on why you turn them down. Is it because they don't look good enough, have enough money, the right car, or simply know what you want? Men and women both make the same mistake. In this case the answer is yes. In my experience I have seen more women make this mistake then men, but to be honest I can assure you that in time, from my experience and observations of people around me you will learn not to make shallow judgements--mainly about the time, the men you started turning down stop following you around and begin to go out with women who are much substantially younger, thinner, have less wrinkles, etc, then you. On the other hand, if you're being approached by people who are honest to god derilicts, losers, players, or other undesirable types--or just people you plainly don't like, then you're not stuck up. You need to ammend your question and give us more examples.
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EVERY Guy?? I have to agree - yes...
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no it just means that you dont like those guys in that way
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it is your choice, after all. But, ask yourself why you are turning down each one? Are you perhaps waiting for this perfect man to come along? He might be one of the ones you turned down...you just didn't recognise him in his frog disguise.
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That would depend on your reasons for doing so.
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No, you might be very selective. You can probably see that they just want to wine you, dine you and then 69 you.
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