Why would my wife say she wants to go down on one of our black male friends?Not sex, He is married and women around here always talk about how hot he is but I never heard any ask if they could suck him off. My wife asked me if he said yes, would I be mad?
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I don't know if you'd be mad, but I know if I ever had a husband, or heck, my boyfriend even, said he would actually go and give oral to someone that wasn't me, you can be at least I'D be mad!
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LOL You must be nuts.
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why would you be mad? if she comes home who cares???
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if she loved you she wouldnt do it. you have every right to be mad that i believe would be grounds for divorce!!!!! i couldnt see any married women or man asking if they could has oral sex with anyone but their partner mabey it the myth of blacks and big penis' theory.
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I'd be angry beyond belief.
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Do you know what self respect means?
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What do you mean...not sex? That was Clinton's excuse. Going down is sex. I bet your wife is teasing you to see your reaction. Women TALK about this sort of fantasy thing, and your wife and the" women around" you obviously are no different .... it is the action that is wrong, and there hasn't been any. Why would your wife tell you this if she really meant it....surely she is not that stupid. Cool your jets...I believe she is testing your reaction just for fun. Tell her you don't want to be part of her fantasy...and you don't appreciate her talking this way. Ask her how she would feel if you said you would like to go down on ..... Don't let this be a deal breaker in your marriage...
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I am sorry, but thats is wrong..What kind of women is that, I wouldn't trust her. I think you and her must go to conseling immediately..Please get help.
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I think you'd regret it if you let her.!
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It depends on your relationship, but it might not hurt you as much as all the others are saying. Woman have two things, they are naturally bi-sexual and they all fantasize and think about having sex with black men. Maybe you could arrange a wife swap? Or at least watch while he has sex with yours and his wife.
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No, but you also know she has already done it. Imagine kissing her. http://www.imeem.com/ubernoise54/music/CW8xZ504/david_allen_coe_my_wife_ran_off_with_a_nigger/ Sing a long
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i want to dawnload san andreas
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It's interesting to read the other answers to this question and to see that you've been DRed enough to get to -13 as I read this. I think that you have to consider how you feel about it and react accordingly. I've had boyfriends before who shared me with a black man and it was a fun and exciting experience for us both. OTOH, I could see how some men would be intimidated by sharing their woman with anybody, regardless of color. Just think it through and be open and honest about your feelings. It is only through sincere communication that this can move forward in the way that will best affect your relationship. Good luck! (and here's a couple points to try to help out).
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Well, first, his race should not matter. If your wife feels comfortable enough with you to ask you if she can perform a sexual act on another man, there might be some other issues. My first question would be do you have an open relationship? If you do, than I would wonder what the issue is. If you do not, than there should be no question - she should not only, NOT do it, but should feel ashamed for even asking.
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If I was to answer this, I would first ask if maybe this was a way of getting absolution for either the thought or action that may have already taken place. Personally, I would say go for it if thats what turns you on. I would also maybe ask about having an open relationship if she is serious about her wishes. sounds she may really have interest based on curiosity.
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Dude, your wife just kicked you in the nuts and spat in your face by even asking you this.
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Because she already had sex with him. She regrets it, and wants to know if you're going to leave her if you find out. But she's so guilty it's killing her. And she's scared. So she's presenting a hypothetical scenario that isn't as bad as what she really did to gauge your reaction. Time for divorce, imho.
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Just be true with one another and she might just want to see what a black man have to offer at least she is being honest about her feeling because a lot of ladies think of these things but does not share them
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you are married, what the hell are you talking about your wife sucking off another man for?
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I've read the other comments and it appears to me that she just wants to live out a fantasy....why is this sucha bad thing. My responce to her woulddepend on the strength of out relationship
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I really don't understand what being black has to do with it. I'm guessing that you think because he is black he must be big. Sound like one for myth busters if you ask me. I have had my share of black cock and white cock, put on a blind fold and you would not know the difference. Bottom line is that there is nothing like downing a nice cock.
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this is kinda messed up. your wife asked to suck some other guy off? unless you're in an open relationship then its up to you, if not...its messed up.
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I think a lot of white women (as well as white men) have heard the stereotype of black men having larger dicks than white men, and sometimes that curiosity builds into a turn-on; maybe even a forbidden fantasy. Faced with the possibility her fantasy has a chance of being fulfilled, there's many women who wouldn't say a word to their husbands about it. Theres even more who would go behind their husbands back just to get the rush. I think I'd at least consider myself lucky if I were in your situation, it shows she respects you enough to get your opinion on the matter.
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