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Yeah, I talked to three guys my last girlfiend dated and everyone told me she was nuts. So I dated her anyway for a little while. They were right.
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'Surprising' you at work is a good start, especially if you are the ex. Tell her to back off and if you want a lunch date, you'll call her, but not to drop in on you again. If she doesn't take that well, you'll know. How long has she been your ex and how long did you date before you "X"ed her?
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i can't imagine that we can tell these things...i guess if they're overly emotional?...who knows..good luck
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There is little prediction of the reactions of a stable person, much less one under some sort of mental or emotional duress. I would like to offer the theory that this surprise was somewhat of a "fishing-trip" to confirm, or dispel what she heard, and maybe to gauge her chances by your reaction to her presence. Your refusal to be emotional, flirtatious, or dramatic, sets somewhat of a standard for her to follow, or show herself to be the lesser rather than an equal. If we could predict who would become, psycho-stalker material, we would have to downplay the power of choice,and free will in people's lives. (except for mental illness, and even then were in some diabolical legal and moral questions) The best predictor of reactions is to anticipate reactions similar to those she displayed in other situations. I'm thinking that a normal exchange on civil terms is a good sign, and you should not have any major outbursts to deal with, but do choose to not give the chance for unreasonable encounters. Be good to yourself.
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Perhaps she thought you two just might get back together since it was a new break up and she was saying by her appearance she is still interested. BUT Since you are wondering if she might be psycho-stalker material there must be something about her that concerns you. If that is the case......let her know firmly your relationship is over. Do not mention the new person you are dating in any way or give any other information for that matter. Cut her off completely. If that is what you want to do.
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