I have been dating my girlfriend for six months now. Im 30 and she is 38 she is divorce and has two sons 16 n 18 .I have no kids on my own but we have been trying to conceive a baby together. Sge is about to start taking premama fertility to help better but things been wonderful,she has been better than any other women I has dated but I do think she is cheating on me. Only because she has secret phones and she keep her emotions hidden from me sometimes. When I ask she about it she denies it as usual but now I believe she has been on dates and having sexual relations with these other guys. We live together and she does her dirt on her days off because other than that we is side by side looking like a happy couple. I know she is lieing about talking to other guys bc I went through her cell phone when she was sleep and seen the text messages but in the messages to the guys she turns them down by not replying back to them when they ask her out or sexual stuff. Also she has stop saying I love you back to me and tried to start a 30 day no sex challenge with me. I went for it for a week until I seen her panties one day it had a big white flaky spot on them it look like sperm so i quit the challenge that has been going on for a week now. I have more evidence to support my case of her cheating. I want to know how to get her to confess and be honest about it to me. I don't wont to lose her or walk away unless I really have to