Here is a question where you asked about your husband: http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/340068 Here is one about your boyfriend: http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/327717 Another about your boyfriend of two years: http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/322351 All of your questions are like this and, if those questions are scrutinized, things do not add up. Please stop spamming with incendiary questions. You can get sympathy and attention in a much healthier way. I do not even know how many of these you have asked tonight. It is quite a few.

For your information artizdan whatever I am not Spamming. I come on this site asking questions in hope that I might someday get the right answer that will end my misery that goes on in my life. TY

Will you stop spamming. It's not even a waste of time, it's a waste of the internet. If your boyfriend/husband/"fill in the blank" has raped you/someone else/"fill in the blank" then leave him and tell the authorities. Cut this crap out. Want me to call you a wambulance? Want some more cheese with that whine? No. No more whine for you, because you are drunk on the wine which is your constant complaining. You're not special, you're not a princess, all you are is a royal pain in the ass.

Honey, you are clearly obsessed with this problem. It is a difficult scenario but posting the same question a bunch of different ways on website is not going to help solve anything. Find a therapist and STAY AWAY from this guy. Isn't that what you expect to hear? Obviously, the answer is DUMP THE RAPIST.

You are an attention whore and a big fat liar.

Rape him.

ok, so i skimmed the answers to this question. I'm just gunna say what i think. He isn't good for you-duh you need to break up-duh perhaps youre codependent, think about you and you dont need a realtionship, this could make you stronger and a lot more careful with who you date or end up with. if youre scared, either talk to the cops or move away, dont let him take over your life. You obviously did nothing wrong. Take a deep breath, be strong and say you want out, you can do better

Everyone who is attacking this girl need to take a moment to sit back and think and stop responding on emotions. You know anything in this world is possible. You should not answer a question if you can not think outside of the box....... Even if you known a person for years the process of learning about them is not fully done.people only let you know what they want you to know no matter the type of relationship you have with that person. Things like this happen everyday, besides if you really think about it you will realize most people won't tell you everything about themselves especially that they are a rapist... and the very things that we find out about a person no matter when we find out we are the most shocked about it because we were not led to believe this so it comes across as out of character for him. This situation is real and happens to lots of people. Just because it's not in the media, limelight all the time or recognized as a on going problem in society it doesn't mean it doesn't happen. Rapists also have alternate lives they live also, it's called a double life. This is another tactic for them to be deceptive and helps them appear as if they are not capable of such a thing or act........I personally know ALL of this from experience. The real reality of things is that a person that is deceptive or a master of disguise lives to keep things hidden at all times and not get caught. His objective is to make you think the total opposite and let you see the total opposite of what he really is or is capable of and usually when or if he does get caught it's a slip-up on his part from letting his guard down, from comfort, checking a computer, etc.I can understand her fear and anyone knows just walking away isn't very logical when(to name a few) emotions,love, a sense of closeness, a relationship,(even if it was deceptive) love and sometimes children are involved and present. even when our best intentions are to walk away it is easier to think about it, want to do it then to actually put it to practice and action and actually do it and succeed with completly walking away from the situation. As we know no one human being is perfect and putting her down is not the right thing to do...... so my advice TO YOU....would be because it can be very humiliating to go seek help by yourself just do it, everything in life that is new to us almost always creates fear within (EX. First day at a new school). A good place to start would be at a rape crisis center or someone who may be able to shed some light to this situation from dealing with people with the same mind frame or maybe a person who specializes in how you are feeling and your current situation, even taking some domestic violence classes or groups on a topic you think will help you understand what you do not understand. This will be beneficial to you, and if you are planning on staying with him make sure it's not just an assumption that is making you feel this way or make sure you aren't feeling this way because of an insecurity and once you rule these out you will be able to make a better decision. If he knows you know or not,the worst thing you can do is up and immediately leave this could spark anger and many other things and could potentially spark violence in him from reacting to emotions another approach you can take is try to be understanding of why he is like this? or why he did what he did? although he may not open up at first or may never at least you provided the understanding that just because he has a flaw you aren't just going to just turn your back on him this will be appreciated by him however please be wise careful and use the proper judgment because only you know him. I mean after all no one should say you should leave him when no one really knows the situation and plus you stated you can't seem to do it on your own. that is so understandable, so my suggestion would be to understand why you want to stay or why do you feel you it may be the best thing? what are your honest thoughts about this situation? what keeps you wanting to be around him? why don't you want to leave what continues to draw you to him? and i challenge you to think do you really have a great future with him? can you get a better man? and do you really want to be feeling negative emotions your whole life if you decided to stay with him? do you feel you deserve better?you have come a long way to even come out and ask this question som now it's up to you to take action don't listen to what people say listen to your heart...I hope this helped. Have a great and wonderful day. shonville