yes it's wrong. find some-one your own age.

Yes I am afraid it is wrong if you are thinking of a relationship any more than just friendly acknowlegement. She is well below the age of consent for any kind of man /child relationship. Yes I am afraid that is what it is, a relationship with a person who is legally a child.

yes it is wrong to form a relationship with her now not saying it couldnt work remain friends for a few more years 3 years to be exact if you still wait for her and like her after that then maybe you could form a lasting relationship but as of right now i wouldnt act on any feelings you or her might have

yes it is wrong, not to mention , depending where you are, probably illegal..you are an adult and she is a child. You should not even want a relationship with someone so young.

It's wrong and it's illegal. You could get into a heap of trouble and even serve some jail time if you pursue this relationship and it leads to sexual relations. If you really like each other, you can wait a few years.

At 20 with no relationship experience, a 15 year old girl is probably your equal in this area. It is no surprise that you would see someone in this age range as attractive. But it is illegal. It is also not fair to her. She still needs to grow, and do it with kids her own age. Get involved in more social situations and you will find a girl closer to your age that will be even more attractive because her physical age and life experience will equal your own.

Yeah, it is wrong. Not only is dating someone under the age of 18 socially unacceptable, the knowledge gap and maturity level will cause issues. Can you remember when you were 15? Do you think that a 20 year old would like to hang out with you? Someone that is 15 has a totally different view on reality and priorities than someone that is 20. Focus on your goals and a relationship will come naturally. Last, let her be a kid. The last thing you want on your conscience is being responsible for making someone grow up too fast.

15 is really, really young, dude. Isn't there anyone your own age you're into? Age differences matter less when you get older - when you're 30 and a girl is 25, no biggie. But 15 is a whole world away from 20 even if she's really really mature, or you're really really immature. I'm sure she's a great girl, but it would be really wrong to pursue something with her. It's illegal, it's unfair (in that the power balance between you will be WAY off), and it's kind of creepy. Don't do it.

Before I would condone this relationship or not: Is there any sexual conduct between you or is it merely platonic at the moment? If the answer is yes, then it is wrong. One, it is against the law and, two, if you truly had the feelings you indicate in your question then you would wait until she is by law able to consent. If the answer is no then why not? Is it because the law states it, she feels that she is not ready, you feel that you are not ready or a combination? If it is due to the law then is it because of conviction or her good name? If it is due to conviction then the relationship is wrong because you are merely lustful but if it to protect her good name then this indicates true warmth because you care more about her heart than her body. If it is because she is not ready then that also indicates true warmth in your feelings towards her and I think the relationship is not without merit, as long as you are not sexualy frustrated but your heart is breaking because of the wait. If you are not ready then these questions need to be asked when you are.

Apparently, someone out there does not like being told that a relationship between a twenty-year-old and a fifteen-year-old is wrong. I noticed that a couple of these answer have gotten down rated. However, I am going to agree with everyone else who has posted so far. This relationship is wrong. There is (or should be) a huge difference in the level of maturity of a fifteen-year-old and a twenty-year-old. Keep in mind that this girl is not even old enough to drive a car and is probably on just getting ready to start her sophomore year in high school. You on the other hand should be about halfway through a bachelor's degree or getting trained in a trade that you can use to earn a living. She probably doesn't really have an idea yet as to what she really wants to do with her life. You should have a pretty good idea what you want. She is still dependent on her parents for her support. If you are not still in school, then you should be supporting yourself by now. When you two are significantly older, then a five-year difference in age won't make for that much of a difference in your relationship. However, at this point, it is a very significant difference. So, I would say that you should back off. Look for someone your own age and give this girl time to grow up. If in five or six years neither of you are attached to anyone else and you are still attracted to each other, then you might want to look at restarting the relationship at that time. For now, you are playing with fire. People will question your motives in dating someone so young and, should the relationship include sex, you could find yourself going to jail for statutory rape and getting a record as a sexual predator. This is what you are looking at if you continue this relationship.

Vary interesting answers on this one. I have been reading a lot of the relationship questions and age ones. If you wait until you are 24 and she is 18-19 they would answer totally different. Now also everyone is jumping to conclusions that "sex" is going to happen. When you two could be really close friends really. I mean thats all a relationship is two people that are close and trust each other. There is no law that you would be breaking. - Maybe i could ask the others. What if her parents are alright with the relationship? I mean maturity is one thing. You are 20 so you should have an idea what mature is and is not. Don't take away her teenage years by having a serious relationship. Trust me your mind will always be worrying about that, as mine has. - Yes I am also in the same boat as you one reason why i choose not to post with my real account. I can give you my advice and thought with out others thinking what they will. In the end a relationship is up to you and her. Make sure you know what you are doing don't mess around with their live and don't do anything illegal. Make sure the parents know and are ok with it. If they are not best thing would be to wait until she is older and society will accept you two. Sad to say that but thats why I don't talk about it to many people. - Takes courages to ask this question. This one was I have been dying to ask since I got on here but as I read more about relationships I though who cares what others think. We are waiting until she is older before having anything serious. I always tell her don't let out relationship change her life style. So she can still grow and its really amazing to see how quick some one you care about grows. - Best wishes to you.

i dont really know what to tell you.. to be honest i'm in the exact same boat as you... we are only dating and we don't plan on sexual manners right now... i want to say its fine but i do think you should stay frineds and wait till shes 18... but i'm right with you... its not illegal for you to date, go out, but it is if your sexual... i'll keep track on this one... i'd like to know whats up...