If you're making money, that makes you a pimp. If you're not that makes you a fool. That's not the definition of a wife.

It is not really that common but it is not that UNcommon a sexual fantasy either. I personally would NOT call this a perversion since it does not involve any sort of coercing or forcing someone to do something they do not want to do. Actually, there are quite a few men who fantasize about their wife being with other men, and enjoying it. The feeling is actually named, "compersion." It is the feeling of desiring one's significant other to have pleasure, usually sexual pleasure, with other partners. The story of Cyrano DeBergerac is one example of this sort of relationship. If your wife does not want to play out this fantasy, do not push the issue. You might be able to satisfy your desire for "compersion" by finding out what sort of non-sexual activities (perhaps travel, shopping, some favorite cuisine) which she enjoys the most and then offering to fund or facilitate her enjoyment of those activities. Offer her a great day just for her, and see if that gives you that feeling to satisfy your compersion.

I sympathise with the writer of this question and have to admit that I, too, am looking to find a woman that would cuckold me; but where do you find such an individual? Personal Ads tend to revolve around 'couples seeking...' or 'bull seeking...' but never a woman openly admitting to wanting a regular partner/husband for the purposes of cuckolding. Can anyone help me in my search (UK only)?

I am among those men who really really really wants his wife to experience sex with other men and then come home to me and have me lick her clean. Sadly, she is not into it at all. I can't push the issue because I respect her and want her to be happy. It seems that means I will not be (at least inasmuch as it relates to this ...)

There's a psychological/biological theory called sperm competition that is actually one facet of three separate activities men participate in to prevent cuckoldry. In sperm competition (the one most related to the cuckold fantasy), the idea that your wife may be having intercourse causes your body to react with increased arousal and sperm production. While I have yet to see this espoused as a formal theory, I speculate that the willing "cuckold" is addicted to the increased arousal that comes from the idea of his wife's unfaithfulness. Just to flesh out the three methods men use to prevent cuckoldry, the first method is control (psychological or physical) of the wife, and the final method is detecting that the wife's child is of another man. There is a substantial amount of cuckold pornagraphy that is devoted to interracial sex between white wives and black men. This makes sense when it is viewed as another erotic trigger based on the prevention of cuckoldry.

Sorry but this seems odd to me

I too share this fantasy. Although I consider myself quite a dominant male and get jealous of her encountering other men in reality, I still fantasize about her bedding other men. For me; the important bit is not just her being taken by another, but the thought of her really wanting it and looking forward to it and truly loving having another man up her. The thought of her coming back to me and straddling my face so I can smell the sweet sent of her and her lovers' sex whilst she recounts every detail of what she let him do to her and how much she loved it sends me into a sexual frenzy. In reality; I doubt she'd ever go through with it - she's very much a 'one-guy' kinda girl, and I don't know what shattering effects it may have on the relationship if she ever did sleep with another, but at least I've still got the powerful images in my head of her greedily sucking another man, or of her on her knees, face stuffed into a pillow, one hand rubbing herself whilst some bull gives her the time of her life!

I have the same fantasy of my girlfriend having sex with other black men either in front of me or away and then cleaning her up afterwards. It's just the thought of another man being inside of her, pleasuring her more than I could ever do and watching her enjoy every moment of it.

I am married to a big-butt woman which is very sexy and I really like to see other men fucking her big ass and this fantasy is on my mind every time I am on top of her. Can it really happen to me sometime in future.

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I could never bring myself to touch on this topic with my wife, but when I was separated - my wive in asked what my fantasy was,I said I embarrassed to say, then I told her I like the idea of her dating other men. She said we can make that happen- sex was the best after I confessed. She told her girl friends, and they loved teasing me about it. I told them it was more of a turn on for me. I'm beginning to thing this is the norm now.

dont think that is normal, but who am i to say what is and what is not normal

hmm, normal or not - i have the same fantasies.... but sadly my wife is only in vaila and there is no chance! But i confess - always if she goes out with Her girlfreinds, i imagine that she would have sex with other boys.... and the next day i sniff on her worn clothes, alwways thinking about what happened..... I confess - i would laos clean her pussy afterwards - i would suck out the cream from her.... so i am crazy?

Honest answer: No, that's not normal. You're really sick sick sick. Seek therapy immediately, and DON'T MARRY!

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SO WHAT IT IS VERY NORMAL THISE DAYS...BE HAPPY LET YOUR WIFE TO GET HER SHARE WITH REAL MAN... WATCH HER WHEN HER LOVER FUCK HER IN FRONT OF YOUR OPEM EYES. LET HER SCREAM WITH PLEASURE WHEN SHE BANGED BY HER LOVERS BE HAPPY DEAR YOU ARE A CUCKOLD, BE PROUD. LET YOUR WIFE TO BE HAPPY TOO,SHE CAN'T GET HER KIKS FROM YOUR TINY MINI PEPE,SHE NEED A BIG FAT DICK IN HER PUSSY. SO DEAR LIFE COULD BE SO NICE WHEN YOU ARE A CUCKOLD HUBBY.

I like to dress as a baby girl in lots of pretty frilly pink satin panties,nighties dresses and nappies ect.My penis is very small ,just 3.5 inches erect and though I'm not married i would love to have a sexy wife to make me her sissy baby girl while she entertained real men in front of me.

Three dozen in one night? if you even think that's possible you have issues.

Three dozen is not impossible at all. In the German 'Joy Division' camps records show that women who entertained officers and therefore serviced less men that those allocated to ordinary soldiers were averaging, averaging 40+ men a night. The big issue will be lubrication. As to the issue of your wife possibly cuckolding you that relies on other matters. I don't think that you will be popular asking for her to hand 36 men. The women in th JD were prisoners after all - she'd likely want to escape.

yes very normal. after explaining to my wife what my fantasy was she hesitated at first, but then became interested after i described the situation. the first night we invited another man over we were sitting around in the living room discussing possible options for the evening. we decided i would go first just to get my wife ready for our special visitor, so off to the bedroom we headed. after getting everyone in bed naked together i was getting ready to fuck my wife and got on top of her. after looking our guest over i noticed that his cock was a lot bigger than mine and it made me extremely jealous. this jealousy turned to humiliation when i lost my erection and i was left with a little limp dick sitting infront of my hot wife and our big cocked guest. my wife immediately demanded that our guest tie me up to a chair infront of the bed for viewing. my wife then proceded to mount the guest and his hard alpha male cock of about 10 inches in length and thick. to my humiliation, my little dick was filled with excitement at this time starring at my beautiful wife getting fucked. both my wife and her guest laughed at my useless cock. while my wife was fucking her well endowed guest cock, she made him stop and point his cock in my face. she instructed me to remove the condom from his cock using only my mouth since i was such an impotent husband. it was the most degrading feeling of my life sucking my first cock, but again my little cock was fucking hard just from sucking this guys dick. my wife went back to fucking his racial cock without any protection which made me humiliated to think i may have a racial child to serve as a forever reminder of this experience. after our guest finished blowing his load in my wife's cunt i immediately stuck my face in my wife's cunt to try to suck as much of his racial cum out with my tounge as possible. afterwards i was hard as hell and looking to fuck my wife's used pussy. however she denied my small cock any pleasure and in fact order our guest to fuck me in the ass before leaving. im not gay and i just wanted to try this as a fantasy, so you can imagine i wasn't happy about this, but i was forced to get fucked in my ass by a racial man. at first it hurt real bad and he was rough with me, but as it went on i settled in. by now my wife was making fun of me for getting ass fucked which actually made my cock real hard. as my wife's new lover fucked me in the ass, i jerked myself off all over my stomach and face. my wife really enjoyed the experience and im thinking about having my penis locked in chastity due to its uselessness.

I wouldn't say normal, but I would say a bit odd. I think the more normal cockold is to be in the room while another guy fucks your wife and tells you about it in front of you. I would love to do that. Then after the guy shoots into her, you must eat it out of her. That is the normal cuckold. But hey, if you like it and she doesnt care, and it is clean and disease free --- then go for it!

It is for me but my wife is affraid to take on more than 3 at a time.

Alot of men fantazise about it, I do too. But I'm not sure why that is, it doesn't seem to make sense. I wouldn't like to be humiliated in real life. Why is it, that when it comes to sex its such a turn on?? Like performing oral sex to a dominant woman, is so much better then doing it to a real sweet woman.

i am a cuckold also. My wife has had sex many times with my best friend, which I find very arousing for me. I cannot explain why. He even once was screwing my wife at a motel in front of one of our other friends then literally picked her up and put her naked on his be for her to to his screw too. When she came back to our motel room and told me I was so excited I could hardly wait to lick her clean. I am white as are my friends. MY wife is Japanese. She felt funny at first screwing him in front of me but now seems to really enjoy doing that. I even enjoy taking pictures and making videos of them. Gordon

I sat and waited for my wife to come home last week. She mamanged to arrange a date with one of her male friends. I asked her to bring home the used condoms and around 2am she wandered home. I was surprised at the ammount of cum in the condoms.

Whats your wife think about this idea?

i think it is normal i have watched my wife have sex with other men for a long time she has also had sex with other men while i was in the other room listining to it happen and after she is done she has had me eat her out before she would have sex with me and also kiss her after she has performed oral sex on the other man I would love for my wife to go to a motel and have sex with three of four dozen men and come home to me unclean it would be such a turn on.

Yes it is completly normal for cuckolds to dream about wife take three dozen men inside her willing pussy and other 2 hols. My wife shaged by 5 men around 24 hours in hotel room in Rome while I was out the roo dreaming she will let me in.

I am quickly becoming a cuckold husband and I feel the same way. Now that her men are a turn on for me I would love it if she had 15 or 20. And believe me she loves the encouragement.

The question is: Is it normal? The answer is: No. It's not normal. What consenting adults do between or amongst themselves is their own affair. But to enjoy having one's wife, who should be the love of one's life, engage in sex with other men is NOT NORMAL.

many years ago ,my wife took lovers when i was working out of town i was upset but came to terms with it.over the years i discoverd i was liking feeling inadequate, eventually i joined in as a threesome. i now relise im homosexual and lookfoward to her gentlemen friends coming round.

yes it is. I too love the thought.