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by Anonymous on October 9th, 2005

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How do you competely trust a married man that you're dating?

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  • by Anonymous on September 24th, 2007

    Anonymous

    I do not care what anybody tells you, i can tell you now, that there is no way to completely trust a married man who is in a relationship with another woman. Meaning he's screwing you, and his wife...reality check, i think you need a couple of those. He's not a good man, because a real man, does not betray his wife. He is a cheater, liar and overall obviously a scum bag. He's feeding you excuses, lies, and you are falling for it...just like he wants you to, into his trap. How about the other woman? The one that walked down the isle to her husband, and said, "for better or for worse", how do you think she's going to feel? Sometimes in life you need to think about other people, and how you effect other peoples lives. How can you sleep at night, knowing that some other woman is involved...She has a marriage to this man, and you are the other woman. It's odd, you are okay being the other woman, i'd never put myself in that position. I honestly, can't justify, what you're dealing with a married man. I want to give you some sort of advice, but my only advice is you're lying to yourself that this man has anything for you. If he did, he wouldn't still be with his wife...he'd be with you. Don't let him have both, there is single men you know...

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  • by buxtonite ..slowly losing my mind on March 18th, 2008

    buxtonite ..slowly losing my mind

    lol...lol...lol sorry I can't stop laughing ...lol... dating a married man and trust in the same sentence..lol...lol....oh please stop your killing me !

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  • by none on September 24th, 2007

    none

    You don't, you find someone else. Unless you like feeling unsure all the time.

    Not sure if he really loves you because he's married.
    Not sure if his wife and you are the only person he's seeing.
    Not sure if how he treats his wife differs than how he treats you.
    not sure not sure........ because it's not supposed to be this way. I think you should leave him alone and let him find someone else to confuse.

    I'm working on getting over the married man that got to me, it's hard but we need to do it.

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  • by RedJohn on October 19th, 2005

    RedJohn

    How can you completely trust someone who is cheating their partner? I don't think one can. And if you are knowingly "dating" someone who has made a marriage or partnership commitment, then you are no better. A very important rule in relationships is this: clean up the old one before you start the new one. No one is betrayed that way. People can make a relationship work that is based on a certain level of dishonesty at the start, but it's not a good place to start. And while it may work, it often does not.

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  • by EyExCanDii119 on February 26th, 2008

    EyExCanDii119

    This is a stupid question. How can you trust a man who is lying and being unfaithful to his wife (and family)? Hmmmm......WHAT DO YOU THINK?

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  • by curious curious on March 15th, 2006

    curious curious

    Stastics have shown many married men will cheat in their marriages but at the same time very few married men who would leave their marriages for another woman (despite what they say to the other woman). What does this mean for you? You cannot trust him.

    One thing is true, what he does to his wife is what he will do to you. You cannot trust someone who will cheat on his wife for you, because even if you become his wife, he will do the same to you. Cheating is acceptable to him. If cheating is acceptable in his moral code, then he would do it to you too.

    What he did onto her, he can do onto you. There is always that risk. Do you want to live with that?

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  • by Sweet T on February 26th, 2008

    Sweet T

    LMAO, Great joke. I am sure you two will make a fine couple some day.

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  • by Anonymous on February 26th, 2008

    Anonymous

    you dont do it . You are destroying a family maybe no children and then again maybe 3. I am trying to figure out what women will do to break up a marriage because I feel ther is one trying to destroy the family I have held together through so much...because of her my children are in therapy and I am on medication... You women who consider being with married men are a disgrace! I consider you equal to murdering thieves because you kill familys and steal fathers and husbands.

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  • by Sheriff Raff -Answerhag on January 14th, 2009

    Sheriff Raff -Answerhag

    It's like hiring a pedophile to babysit....

    Bad idea.

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  • by A on September 24th, 2007

    A

    The fact that you are helping him cheat on his wife makes me want to know why you even care whether he is trustworthy or not. You *know* that he's married, you *know* that he's got the duty of being her husband, yet you're going behind her back with him. That's really not fair. Think about his wife who has no idea of what's going on. She might have an idea and she might not, but I think this is all very inconsiderate. I don't think he should trust you and I don't think you should trust him, either. Move on, find people who are't "committed". What do you want from him? Do you feel happy with the fact that he wants to see you even though he's married? Does it make you feel better? How would you feel if you were in his wife's shoes? Your in a situation that could hurt another person and should get out of it ASAP! I don't care if it affects your "so-called love life", 'cause in my opinion, if a person is married or in a relationship.. they're TAKEN.. and especially if they're married.. and if that's mean, so is not caring that he's married. If you did care that he was married, you wouldn't be dating him.

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  • by Firebrand on January 28th, 2009

    Firebrand

    You dont, he is already proving his dishonesty by cheating on his wife

    Find a man of your own why would you want to date another womans husband and worry if he is trustworthy.

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  • by lovebettafish on March 11th, 2009

    lovebettafish

    Love he will NEVER leave his wife for you EVER, you should not wait for him to do this. Go and find your own SINGLE man that you can have to your own self.

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  • by JuJubee is wearing a COAT of chocolate on January 14th, 2009

    JuJubee is wearing a COAT of chocolate

    YOu don't!!! He's cheating on his wife!!!!

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  • by Galeanda on February 26th, 2008

    Galeanda

    You can't. Not even a little bit because he is unfaithful, a liar, a cheat, and lacks integrity. But if that is what you want in a man, then go for it.

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  • by canbfrisky on August 23rd, 2010

    canbfrisky

    You Don't, He's a Pig & YOU are a Pig.

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  • by shesapartygurl on February 2nd, 2009

    shesapartygurl

    LMFAO.

    Well you can start by dating people who arn't married.

    Oh and I guess you can't, He would always be cheating on you...WITH HIS WIFE.

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  • by happiness on January 28th, 2009

    happiness

    Oh No..... why should we trust a cheater ?

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  • by the VP wears a Wicked COAT on July 30th, 2008

    the VP wears a Wicked COAT

    First, allow me to say that in my opinion, your question is the epitome of an oxymoron.

    As I sit here staring at your question I cannot think of where to start. How about here; you can never trust a married man that you are dating. Using the term "dating" to me is a bit farfetched too. What you are doing is...

    You know what? Never mind. I am not here to point fingers, tell you how to live your life, etc. So to reiterate, there is absolutely no way you can completely trust this man. Now or if he leaves her for you or even if the two of you get married. I would say that I personally would find it extremely difficult to ever trust him, under any circumstance, so to give you advice as how to do so is beyond me.

    I wish you luck and hope you find whatever truth it is you are looking for.

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  • by WoOZackWoO on July 30th, 2008

    WoOZackWoO

    Is it just me or are you contradicting yourself.

    You can't...

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  • by Sandy on September 22nd, 2010

    Sandy

    What the fuck?! Dating a married man??? What the fuck is wrong with you?!

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  • by Shatzee coming back? on October 26th, 2009

    Shatzee coming back?

    you're joking right?

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  • by m4dm4nsgirl on March 18th, 2008

    m4dm4nsgirl

    why would you date a married man????? and why would you trust him???? don't you think that if he is cheating on his wife then he will cheat on you? well he really is cheating on you as well because he is married and with his wife....what a sad situation...does he have children??

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  • by Shopping Sheryl - home from the hospital on March 18th, 2008

    Shopping Sheryl - home from the hospital

    Hello? You don't.

    If he's stepping out on her with you, he'll do it to you too.

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  • by Anonymous on March 23rd, 2009

    Anonymous

    hah, you cant.. he is lying to his wife, so he is probably lying to you too, and after you he will lie to others
    once a cheater always a cheater..

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  • by Scifisuz on March 23rd, 2009

    Scifisuz

    Duh, you can't. And you are not to be trusted either.

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  • by AKW on March 11th, 2009

    AKW

    You can never trust a married man. He's probably lying to his wife. So why should he be honest with you.

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  • by Rocket on March 11th, 2009

    Rocket

    ROTFL .... this is a joke right???? you are a mad women... You can't .......

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  • by m4k4v3l1_mami on March 11th, 2009

    m4k4v3l1_mami

    now dis question pisses me off. y r u datin him if he's married. Get a new man and get off his D*ck! off course u can neva trust him cuz he's alreadi cheatin on his wife, y would u think u would be so special for him not 2 cheat on u? Dis Was A STUPID question.

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  • by themyelinsheath on March 11th, 2009

    themyelinsheath

    Are you out of your mind?

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  • by Ganja_Goddess on March 11th, 2009

    Ganja_Goddess

    You Can't!

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  • by Anonymous on March 11th, 2009

    Anonymous

    Well you shouldn't be dating a married man... He probably lies to you... he lies to his wife... what makes you think you are better than his wife... believe me you aren't.

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  • by Nancy on January 29th, 2009

    Nancy

    That has to be the most ridiculous question I've ever heard. He's married to someone else and carrying on with you?! If he's a cheater, you can't ever trust him. What do you think he's going to do leave his wife and marry you?!! Not very likely! And even if he did, you would wonder who he was with every time he wasn't with you. And what kind of loser are you to date someone else's husband?! If he lied to you and told you he was single, you should have dumped his lying-ass the minute you found out. Don't you have an iota of self-esteem? Next time out, when you meet someone, make sure they are not taken. And I don't just mean married, I mean in a relationship with someone else. Make absolutely sure he is totally free in every way so you don't set yourself up for the ultimate heartache.

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  • by Robertd903 on January 29th, 2009

    Robertd903

    Uh...HELLO? He's already cheating!!! Would you trust a SNAKE--after it bit you?

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  • by Penal Colony is wicked marrying Andy on January 29th, 2009

    Penal Colony is wicked marrying Andy

    You don't. End of story.

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  • by stoneddora on January 29th, 2009

    stoneddora

    ummm U DONT!!! u shouldnt be with a married man

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  • by Sosueme on January 28th, 2009

    Sosueme

    You don't

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  • by Roaring on January 28th, 2009

    Roaring

    Trust that this married man is really not available.

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  • by Jennifer on January 28th, 2009

    Jennifer

    Sounds to me you need to find your own man, why is that so hard for people these days?

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  • by Wind Walker on January 14th, 2009

    Wind Walker

    You're pissin' me off!!! Dating a married man. If you're stupid enough to do that, then you deserve what he will put you through.

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  • by justmesuzanne on January 14th, 2009

    justmesuzanne

    If you are foolish enough to date a married man, you are sure to be foolish enough to trust him.

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  • by Lord Knows on January 14th, 2009

    Lord Knows

    This is a joke right? "How to completely trust a 'married' man"? Hmmmm could you repeat the question while speaking out loud?

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  • by UneFille on January 14th, 2009

    UneFille

    How? How. News. You don't.

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  • by ICU says April is Autism Awareness Mo. on January 14th, 2009

    ICU says April is Autism Awareness Mo.

    I would not date a married man. Why do you think this is ok? If he will cheat on her, he will cheat on you!

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  • by UneFille on July 31st, 2008

    UneFille

    What do you call that? An oxymoron? Paradoxical? Haha. Come now, if you trust a married man who is dating you, you should have no trust in yourself for being so credulous.

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  • by angie on March 18th, 2008

    angie

    If he cared about anyone besides himself in the first place, he wouldn't be "dating" while he's married...

    So if he only cares about himself, he doesn't care about you at all, and therefore you have ZERO reason to trust him.

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  • by Taciturnu on March 18th, 2008

    Taciturnu

    ... You don't. And why would you want to?

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  • by Vampyre Bat on February 26th, 2008

    Vampyre Bat

    You can't. He's a liar by definition and has broken the trust of his wife. What would keep him from doing the same to you?

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  • by mannishman69 on February 26th, 2008

    mannishman69

    You wont be able to trust him. How do you know he's not doing it to you.

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  • by Ec-nal Licensed Bootie Inspector on February 26th, 2008

    Ec-nal Licensed Bootie Inspector

    You can't, you know that and you know why you can't.

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  • by Gideon on February 26th, 2008

    Gideon

    He's betraying the person who should be most important in his life.

    He is not worthy of trust.

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