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you say "i'm sorry, i was wrong. what can i do to regain what we had?"
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If you're sincere about it, be humble and ask that person to accept your friendship back. If there were mistakes on your part, accept them and suggest you both look past those for the benefit of the friendship itself. Make it a "no strings attached" deal.
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If she will talk to you then arrange to meet her and apologise, face to face (it's more sincere that over the phone). If she refuses to meet or talk then your only option is to write her letter instead. Whichever method you use, you must be sincere and hold your hands up to having made a mistake. You say or write something along the lines of "I now know that I was wrong about...... I badly misjuded the situation and for that, I am so sorry. I never meant to hurt you and I take full responsibility. I was wrong. I miss you being my friend really badly. I realise that I've hurt you & I know there's a good chance you won't want to know me but I miss our friendship so much that I have to try to patch things up." If she agrees, bear in mind that the trust will have to be rebuilt which will take time but is totally achievable. Be prepared for her to turn you down, don't go into this expecting success, that way you will not be disappointed.
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