Anonymous, do not listen to what they say at all. Don’t be worried about your future; those bullies have nothing better to do, but to prove that they are better than you. You will not end up like a loser. The only thing stopping from your success, is you. They cannot change your life like that. Don’t listen to them and believe in yourself.

You must ignore them and know that you are worth more than a bunch of losers opinion of you. Bullies are people that have so little going for them that they have to try to lift themselves out of the gutter of life by trying to drag others down . Just get on with your life these people are not worth your time or your worry work as hard as you can and do as well as you can that is all that can be expected. You will be fine and we are always about if you need a boost in confidence.

Absolutely not! You'll only be a loser if you let yoursef become a loser. I was also bullied when I was at school. I have a feeling everyone is bullied once in their lives, truth be told, it makes you stronger. In fact, if I were you, Id prove them wrong and really give life all you got, make 'em jelous! Above all else; Dont dream it, be it.

people have a tendency to believe the negative, dont fall for it, they are the losers not you

Dont listen to a word of it..In fact, perfect example of the loser who would not be a success..like him or not..Bill Gates :) Dont let them put your mind into a negative state. Just believe in you :)

If anyone's a loser it's them. Humans are stupid, but those humans are REALLY stupid!

In the end the only persons opinion of you that matters is you. Stay strong and be brave.

The main reason that people pick on others, especially in high school is that they themselves are insecure. They try to make themselves look better by putting others down, and only end up making themselves look worse. Bullies just don't understand the whole concept, they just keep feeling that they have to put others down to try to look good. I know it feels bad, but if anything you could feel pity for them, because they are just too insecure about their life. You must have something that they envy deep inside, and will not admit it. Don't worry, high school only feels like a long time, It's not really, you'll get to the end soon enough.

Ignore them !! The best revenge is success . Stay true to yourself and your goals and don't let anything or anyone stand in your way to pursuing them.

Prove them wrong? Just imagine that class reuinion in 20 years time. Imagine what youre going to be, look like, act. Imagine them as hobos =) youre in charge of youre life. Theyre just some dark blurry faces to you. Have your own pride.

Being worried about your life is a good thing. That means that you want to be sure you don't end up being a loser, like those bullies probably will. Luckily, you are completely in charge of what you will be. If you make honesty, fairness, trustworthiness, compassion and respect part of your life, you will be a success everywhere.

You know the word loser was not a word. If you would think of words this way you will go far and further than thoughs who try to controll your life. All negative words never exsisted untill some thought I don't want this person to be better than me. But what they do not know is no one person is any better than any one else. I went threw years of this. I am in my 50's now and when I got to my 40's I learned just what I told you. Every person in this world has a skill that they will be better at than another person. That other person will have a skill that they are better at than you. This does not make you a loser. The bullies in life will not go as far as some one who they want to cut down. The reason for this is they have a limited range they can traval in their jurny in life.

It is what you believe you are so many people are always trying to bring you down because they see you as a strong person and they know that they are going nowhere and they can't stand it so of course they will try to make you feel like a loser but the only way they can hurt you with names is if you let them you know who and what you are so stand strong and proud keep your head up I know I don't know you but I think you are a very smart person and you will go far in life just believe in yourself and know you can do anything you may even be our next president who knows

welll yeah those bullies r telling u the truth . so ur gonna have to deal with it

life is whatever you choose to make of it. just don't let others choose for you.

Bullies are ass holes. They don't understand you and that's their problem- it scares them that you don't think and act the same way they do. Just tell them you don't give a fuck what they think- they're not gonna ammount to anything because they're too busy copying eachother.

Older post..but unfortunately THIS situation never ends.... They have already established themselves as REAL LOSERS...by their actions towards you and doubtlessly others they enjoy tormenting. YOU, on the other hand...are learning to THINK on your own, and become an ACTIVE person, not a REACTIVE person...YOU are on the path to becoming A REAL HUMAN BEING... You are developing character, compassion, awareness, and to be open to CHOICE in your behaviors and thoughts...instead of developing a "pack" mentality that is incapable of more in depth thoughts and considerations...You are learning to nurture a gentle heart, a loving spirit, a passion, power and fury to be more, to rise above hurtful actions and behaviors...to see though lies...and be honest... YOU HAVE ALREADY WON..THIS GAME... You are already creating success in becoming A REAL PERSON...who will be a successful adult..living well and probably also giving back to others...good things.

you'll only be a loser if you want to be a loser or if you allow yourself to go in that direction. Many times "bullies" bully because they feel threatened by an individuals intellegence or uniqueness (sp). Don't worry about you life until you have to start paying bills and taking care of a family... until then live it up and strive for the best.

Just don't let them bother you. I used to be bullied all the time and told I was ugly, stupid and a whole bunch of other things. I didn't listen to them and I was able to do the things I wanted to with little problem. One of my bullies told me that I was ugly and she was so beautiful only for the fact that she was white and I am asian. But when it came down to it, I used to get all the parts and modeling jobs and she was stuck with either no job or a job that she doesn't want. Later on in life, I talk to people that knew both of us and told me that I was really pretty and they all thought she was ugly. Also, that bully was forced to drop out of the advanced mathematics class I was in because she couldn't handle it and would have flunked if she stayed. I passed that class relatively easily.

Everyone worries about life, so this is normal. Don't give your control to others. The bullies don't have their act together and should be worried about their own lives. Just concentrate on you, work hard toward your goal. You'll be fine. :-)

Im about to turn 18 years old and i know how u feel. i always got picked on for being the last one to grow and fill out. Now i am 6'1 190 and the star of the high school football team. Dont listen to their crap, they dont know you as well as you know yourself. It is in human nature to feel inferior to one who is more talented, leading to them try to prove that they are superior. I look back and laugh now because all bullies end of pathetic loosers and the ones being bullied become bad asses- no wonder they feel inferior!

No they are because once they are the ones intimidating you and you can't let that happen. STAND UP FOR YOURSELF. Let me just say this what can't make you weak can only make you stronger. Being told this many times can either result in you beleiving it or motivate the strongest force within you to succeed. Do you really want to let them have that power over you? And don't prove them wrong just because you want to. Do it because you want to. I used to beleive that I wasn't going to amount to anything because people said so but now I am in college and maintaining High Honors and I am very proud to say that. Be proud of who you are and what you accomplished. No one can take that away from you!!!!! Keep on stepping!

I wouldn't worry about what they think or say about you...prove them WRONG! Good luck!

are they bullying you physically or only verbally?

you try your hardest, you show respect to others and you expect respect from others. you apply yourself and go for every chance you get, you'll do fine

9 times out of 10 the bully or bullies are probably worried of this themselves. You have nothing to do with this. It is their problem. You are not and never will be a loser. And do not worry about your life ..look forward to it because you've only got one love. Have fun and follow your heart!

Don't listen to them. There the ones who are the losers. Just ignore them. If they keep bugging you, tell you mum and dad, or a teacher at school. Bully is a terrblie thing, and someone should go through it. Don't worry about your life, just have fun!

You don't need to worry..Instead use their words as an inspiration to strive harder so that you'll succeed in life..^_^

you are going to be fine, it is the inadequates who are bullying you who will end up flipping burgers,you are erudite(judging from yourquestion) you are couragious (putting up the quesion in the first place)so just remember that the biggest losers are your persecutors, try to think that in 5/10 years time you will be going place, and remember they will still be assholes and inadequate and stuck!

My husband had the same problems, he is now more successful then them. He went to collage, they went on welfare or to prison. Keep your head high and remember success is the best revenge.

XD!!!!!!! THEY are one ending up losers. They feel losers themselves, so they take it on on other pple. Just ignore them and keep doing your best, they are certainly not, so they are the ones who will end up as losers.

no you wont become a loser unless you want to be . as long as you put your mind to it you can do it. so there rong.

If you let them get to you and beleive what they say then yeah you might end up like a loser. But usually bullies only bully people because they are upset with themselves or in your situation are worried that they are losers and they wont be a sucess so they are trying to take you down with them. So DONT LET THEM! be better than that. Ignore them and most of all prove them wrong. You can do anything if you set your mind to it!.

Most bullies get their butts kicked when real life hits them in the face and don’t have mommy or daddy to help them or the safety net of school. Show them up and be all you can be. That way in a few years when you go to get a burger they will be serving you.

Use that as motivation, to be the best you can be.

No. Bullies are crushed people inside, they bully to make others feel down as well. As they say, misery loves company. You would not end up a loser like them if you ignored their bullying.

What do bullies know about your capabilities?! They're probably imbecilic fools that have no future themselves. Taking their words seriously is like taking advice from a gym teacher about acrylic paint. What do they know!?

Only if you believe them because doing so will create a self-fulfilling prophecy. Instead, disregard what they say and believe that you are going to be a success in your life and you know it's true because you will BELIEVE it. The self-fulfilling prophecy will then change direction.

They have no way of knowing what your life will be like!You're the only one who has control over whether or not you'll be a success:)

Not unless you let it happen. It is more likely that the bullies will end up losers in the end, unless they wise up first.

Dont worry! I mean what do they know. their probobly having a hard time at school or with parents at home. They like to bully so that they can hav power over somthing when they feel powerless over somthing somwhere else. Or you can get the ones that are just plain Mean! Either way ignore them anyone can spout C*** but it dont mean anything!!

You are in control of your own life and you can mold your future by either letting what they say influence you, or by ignoring it,and being confident in who you are. Because someone said something, doesn't make it so, otherwise, everytime someone said something would happen it would. And clearly that's not the case. People can't see in to the future, and you can't take what other's say in to account because the only person you can rely on is yourself. If you know you work hard, and plan to take steps to be successful, then you've got nothing to worry about. Good Luck :]

Maybe one day they'll be in your office applying for jobs,you'll know what to do!

dont belive them.Bullies just like saying bad things,they dont mean it but try to make you belive it cuz they want you to get worried.

No you will not end up a loser..You just make sure you dont let their negative words affect you, I know that can be difficult but you will be as sucessful as you think you can be..and if you start doubting yourself because of what they say it will bring you down to where you cant truly see what your capable of! They just see somthing in you that their jealous of and they know that they will most likley end up being the losers.. Good Luck!

You and you alone are responsible for what you think and the feelings you experience... You might consider not taking them seriously....thank them for the input, then allow their feedback to roll off of you like water off a duck's back...

No, of course not. Remember, they are just picking on you because they have nothing better to do, and will most likely end up bagging your groceries.

ignore them, they know nothing of which they speak. They are jealous because THEY are the losers. When they are polishing your Mercedes you can look back on this and laugh

Success is the best revenge :) Anyone that does that to you, is a loser to me. That certainly isn't encouraging. Unless you are like me, I would prove them wrong. Not only because you seem to care about not being a loser, but because I like that kind of revenge :)

DON'T BELIEVE WAT PEOPLE TELL U CUZ THEY DON'T KNOW NOTHING ABOUT YOUR LIFE AND ALL THEY'RE TRYING TO DO IS MAKE YOU SCARED AND IT LOOKS LIKE THEY DID BUT IF YOU SAY THAT YOU WILL SUCCESS THEN YOU WILL AND IF I WERE YOU I WOULDN'T LET THEM TAKE OVER YOUR LIFE CUZ EVERYBODY KNOWS YOUR SMARTER THEN THAT EVEN THE BULLIES AND THAT IS WHY THEY'RE DOIN THAT.

Usually the bullies end up being the losers. You need to do what ever you can to ignore the things they say. Wounds to your body heal, but things that are said are remembered forever. So the old saying, "sticks and stones can break my bones, but words will never hurt me," is definitely not true. You have control of your life and how successful you become. Please don't let some bullies at school tell you anything different. You are already better than them!

Why bother listening to those people?...There are many kinds of people in this world and bullies are those who want to pull you down. Don't listen to them. Ignore them. Do your best to prove them wrong and leave them in shame of themselves. After all,success is the best revenge. Someone also said that everything ends up good. If its not good, then it's not yet the end. ^.^

NO..you will not be the loser in the end you will be the winner. Mark my words on that and hang in there. Life has a way with dealing with the real losers in life which are bullies.

You have control over your life and your actions. If you believe that you are a loser, it's possible you will be. If you believe that you can succeed, you can. You must recognize your own value and worth, independent of bullies and mean-spirited people. If you allow these bullies to affect how you feel about yourself, and affect whether or not you become a success, you are handing them power. Retain that power for yourself, and channel it into becoming who and what you want to be. People only have control over your path if you hand it to them.

with that kind of attitude u will. bullies are usually..bullies because theyre jealous and want to be on "top of it all". dont be discouraged, keep your chin high and ignore them. know your goals and go for it. dont let ANYBODY stop you from living your life

Yell them to shut the F*** up and ti get the hell away from you and let them have it. Tell them what to do and where to do. Don't take their crap; dish it out twice as hard and don't forget to be mean and brutal when you insult these losers. You don't need this in your life and if you take an aggressive stance against these A-holes, perhaps they will back down. Don't take their S**t, dish it out and stand your ground. Then you are a true winner.

The trouble with you, you are allowing them to bully your mind.Convince yourself that you are stronger than what they think of you. Your mind set must be clear on this then you must improve yourself against all your shortcomings . Eliminate these one by one through hard work or perhaps with the help of a mentor.There is no short cut to success. You have to work your way through with self confidence and endurance. Don't give up easily. When ever you feel down discuss with loved ones or your mentor. Continue this process towards achieving your goals.When you reach the top of your mountain look for another one which is higher that what you had achieved. Climb again to the top and so on and so on.By the time you leave this world ,you would surely have achieved many successes beyond your dream. Therefore being a loser in life is out of context.Good luck and many success to you.

Don't look to others to build your self-esteem. Bullies are just cowards; why would their opinion matter? You seem sweet to me and intelligent enough to seek answers to your questions. You will not become a loser! Pity them...they are just afraid of ending up as losers themselves. Good luck! :D

No matter what those poeple say, you are NOT a loser! Prove those fools wrong by showing them that you're smaretr and a better person than them. The only way you'll be a loser is if you listen to them and you become one. Be strong.

they are the losers not you.you go on to be sucessful whereas they will end up in dead end jobs asking "do you want fries with that".

The bullies are the real losers! Just ignore them and get on with your life! You don't need them to tell who you are and what you'll be!!! "You have brains in your head, you have feet in your shoes, You can steer yourself Any direction you choose!"

from personal experience id ejust like to say that ur better than they are :) be a seccess work hard and guess what, youll grow up knowing you have accumplishe dmuch more than they have, and its a good feeling. you will always be better than them i had bullies in primary school no tso much seconday, but i see the primary school bullies walking the streets in thre tracksuits and i laugh, because that all they will ever be to me live your life an ignore thre stupid comments,

THEY'RE GOING TO END UP LOSERS. TRUST ME.

My son has had this proplem his whole school career and this year it has been much better. He started off by getting involved with a couple of activities and taking a couple of classes that he enjoys.(like stage crew and art and photo classes) These helped him grow as a person and nurture him and his needs, to put his focus back on himself. It also introduced him to other people with similar intrests to hang out with. It's not made it all go away but takes his thinking off the other garbage. The bullies have somewhat moved on because they see that they dont get that much of a reaction from him now that he is looking at himself rather than them.- But to answer the question of whether they can cause you to be a failure - they can affect the way you look at youself and that can get in the way, but only if you let it. They only have the power that you give them. Hold your head high, set some goals for youself, work towads them and you will be just fine. (If you haven't noticed, we have faith in you) :) You WILL suceed! Don't consider any other option.

Those bullies are picking on you because THEY are losers. You can do anything you set your mind to......anything! Take no notice of what they say. You are better than them.

My sister got bullied all through elementry school and part of high school by the "popular crowd" almost to the point where my mom was ready to pull her out and make her change schools...But shes a strong girl, and she joined tons of activities and met great friends and now those so called "popluar kids" are LOSERS!!

Stay focused and get negative people out of your life. Tell them to go to hell and your own thing.

Only you have the ability to be a success or not. If you want to be a success you will be. I believe becoming a success is based on what you believe about yourself and not what others say. Some times are harder then others, and you may just be going through a hard time...but it will get better.

How old are you first of all?

in all honesty, u can be whatever you want to be all you need to do is work for it.. and those who waste there time picking on you.. its them that will be nobody's and go nowhere..

Well if you go through life thinking that your going to be a loser I'd be surprised if you were'nt one. But if you look at it positively and say to yourself, "I'm not a loser and never will be even though several people have said i am/will be one, I understand that theyonly want to lower me to match them." then I doubt you will be one

no u r not going to be a loser because ther stupid thats way there bullies there stupid or they would not be bullies

I know this feeling you're speaking of... these bullies have made you doubt yourself... Now you can try to ignore it but I imagine they'll just try harder. it seems to me that these people feel that success is based on a certain set of standards and you don't meet their standards... Ask yourself, "Do I care what other people think of my life?" hopefully your answer is somewhat similar to "No, I don't care what other people think of my life..." Success isn't necessarily a mansion in the mountains or a huge bank account or a network of friends who would die for you. its what you want it to be (hopefully that success is the legal kind :D) besides that I would suggest staying away from these bullies and if they persist and a confrontation is inevitable make sure you're in a public place and try to make it clear you do not appreciate being picked on. if all else fails bring parents into this and have them help you sort it out. best of luck to ya

Rise above it, like the rest of us have, in outime, they are bullying you cos youve got something about you that theyre jealous of!

okay dude dont worry about what there saying. its the way you take it. who knows you better? the people who are sayin this stuff to you or yourself. theres ppl like that in the world and they have no life. they worry about other ppls life like yours.

Don't listen to them. Think about 20 years from now and you stand up and tell your class that you are the leader of a great company and make 2.5 million per month. Then they stand up and tell your class that they are homeless and sell drugs. Think Positive.

ONLY if you believe them. Just ignore (or agree with them - It'll throw them off) and know, in your heart and mind that one day, they will be flipping burgers and hauling garbage, while you are running a successful business with 100 employees, or working for a major corporation making 10 times their salary. And BELIEVE it in your heart and soul. Then study and work for it. When it happens, you have your revenge, right? ;-)

NOO! you choose what your life is gonna be..

Dude... get a grip on yourself! Your destiny is in your hands. You control what happens to you. Nobody can tell you how your life is going to shape up.... even so.... if you feel like you are heading in the direction they are talking about, change it. Prove them wrong. Nothing to it but to do it.

Think of this...how many smart people were bullies in their life? Not too many - because they knew being smart in life gets you more than constantly fighting your way out of battles to get things. So what the moral of this loser story here?

only if you keep listening to them.

well, you can be wat you try to be, are you going to do nothing, or are you going to work hard and put forth all your effort?? and let me ask you this, are the people bulling you jerks who dont care much about school? or are rich kids who get watever they want so they dont have to work hard? well if thats the truth, then their life is already sad. put forth in all your effort and you might just come out way ahead of them all

You will not be a loser in life. I have never really been bullied in my life, but I always try to make friends with the kids who do because I know they usually are having a hard time and it makes them feel better. They are definatly nto losers either.

Your future is the result of the action you take TODAY. If worrying about your future is the extent of the action you're willing to take, you probably WILL be a loser. Decide upon what you enjoy doing and get busy doing it. Stop wasting time with worthless people. --- AS A MAN THINKETH by James Allen http://jamesallen.wwwhubs.com/think.htm

Sounds like they're jealous of you and that they feel insecure around you. I would avoid people like that as much as possible. A friend once told me only to be around people who make you feel good and I think that is a good guideline to follow. No one can make you be anything you don't want to be. You are the main protagonist in your life and you alone can write the chapters in your life.

Don't believe them - instead believe in yourself. I was bullied alot at school, I have sickle cell anaemia which is a blood disorder so not only was i sick all the time - and an easy target for bullies but all that time in hospital meant that i was studying more (i believe a geek was a popular term for me) So basically any thing people could think of they would call me and it really hurt - badly. But do you know everything that goes around comes around and everyone has a time to shine - my life was'nt a crazy success but it worked out better than theirs. So my advice to you is this - find your best points, work on them and don't listen to what anyone else has to say. Believe in yourself - you can be and do incredible things - no matter what these losers say.

It is your choice. Reject their negative predictions and prove them wrong. Please.

Remember, bullies are worth as much as the dogshit stuffed between the crevices of your shoe. Their words are like stink.

Seems like many people are giving you some good advise. I too was told that I would be a losers when I was in my teens. I now have a wonderful family,big house and have done quite well in the business world. I was told I would never get my college degree. Well not only did I get it but now I'm working on my "Masters". Trust me , all your life you well hear negative comment from other people but it doesn't make it true. Focus on what you want and you'll get it. Good luck.

No, you're not going to end up like a loser. You are a child of God and God don't make mistakes. You pray about it, and if you think you don't know how to pray you do. It's just simply talking to God and belive that He hears you and that He will answer your prayer and He Will. Keep your mind focused on your work and know that it will be all over soon and you'll be out of there. Ignore them and pray that God will make your enemies your foot-stool and He will. You're going to be alright. God Bless You

Don't let anyone decide for you who you are or what you are. You decde these things nobody else. You've got to have a healthy self esteem. Be optimystic. If you think you are a loser so shall you be. If you think you are a winner so shall you be. This person you speek of is probably jealous of you deep down.

Bullies are jealous and insecure. They try to make themselves feel better by making others feel worse. (Believe me, they are basically cowards too.) My son used to get bullied all the time in school. He was a good student and they were almost flunking. Even though it bothered him, he did not let it ruin his life. Now, he's a successful businessman and they are washing dishes in a nursing home!!

GOD MADE NO LOOSERS, TRY SHOWING HOW IT DONT BOTHER YOU EVEN WHEN IT DOES. AND BELIEVE IN YOURSELF, THERE COMMENT CAN NOT MAKE YOU UNLESS YOU LET IT, AND YOU ARE TOO GOOD FOR THAT.

one day your going to be fixing there computer for an amount that would be the same as 3 weeks pay for them then u can sit back an laugh at there asses dont sweat it kid

if you fall for this then you will, its called a self-fulling prophecy. if you believe what they say you will become what they say, joins sport, team, or club and become more involved, it will get you motivated

Earn good grades in school and do what you want to do.. become independent and successful. twenty years from now those bullies won't be able to speak down to you because you'll most definitely be more accomplished than them. No one can talk down to you if you have an education. My mother used to be in a group of friends who were incredibly nerdy.. beyond loser as she says. Everyone made fun of them, even the geeks. However, she and her friends found perseverance and were able to get good grades. When they attended their high school reunion, those who talked down and bullied them before weren't able to because they achieved very little in life. They were too busy talking down to people in order to boost up their self esteem and confidence that they totally forgot that there was a higher purpose in life. Those bullies envied my mother and her friends because no longer were they "losers".. they were important people in society and no one could deny that, not even the bullies. So study well and have goals in mind. Don't think so much about what other people think.. instead, focus on the broader picture, being independent and educated. Don't let yourself feel inferior to those jerks. They'll have their piece of pie later.

Some of the greatest minds were geeks. Bill Gates springs to mind, but also consider Stephen King and some of the world's greatest artist are self-confessed "losers", "freaks" etc. the list goes on. Not a bad group to be among. Being yourself means that there will always be people who will make you feel bad about yourself...it's human nature, unfortunately. Would you rather be a fake, and have them like you for someone you're not? Believe me, it simply doesn't work, and you'll be more miserable than you are now...because you can never please those people. You will find friends, a group that like you for who you are...stick with them. They need you as much as you need them. Blessings...

You will not ended up a loser. Bullies are losers. Some day these losers may work for you. When you are their boss, be kinder to them than they were to you. Their day in the sun will be over and yours will be just dawning.

See nothing can determine whether a person will succeed or fail in his life. It Completely depends on him, how he takes it and how he makes it. Rest all depends on God...............So Trust on God and do your best

It all depends on how old you are. If you are above teenage I would say, ignore the bullying as much as possible, coz, believe it or not, bullies grow up too. As far as your future life goes, it's up to you. Why are you afraid of being a loser, is there something stopping you from being what you want? Sit yourself down and look at your life, write down the things you like to do, things you feel good about doing, things you feel you can do better than most. Put down things you can't handle. Look through your list, work out from what you have written which ones you like most. Get the paper, look for jobs you feel you would like.