How do you break up with someone you live with who has done nothing wrong but love you and care for you, but quite frankly bores the living days out of you? A serious relationship was built and love was made but how do you end it?
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I know what you mean my husbands boring he wasnt when we met he was fun,now years on all he does is sleep when he gets home and we hardly ever go out or talk anymore,i know he loves me to bits but he is turning into his father.All you can do is be honest with him and tell him you need more in your life than he can give you,and good luck.
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Leaving is never easy, and your looking for an easy way out, but there isn't. His feelings are going to be hurt and emotions are going to run into overdrive no matter what your approach. The easiest way to do it is to pack your things and leave, a dear John note would be kind and give you time to explain things so you can't be interupted by emotions. You can meet later to discuss issues over coffee if warranted, but it's best just to leave and break off further communication. Sounds easy? Wait till you do it, it's going to be a bumpy ride but the both of you will eventually pull through it. People come and go, you just happen to be one of those people.
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I really wish i had this answer... Im trying to figure it out too. So far the only idea i could come up with for myself is to try my best to make him think it was his own decision . By trying to distance myself from him and make him unhappy with me. And my situation is incredibly hard because I made him move to another state with me over a thousand miles away from his home and family. And we are currently living in my parents house. We were hoping to stay here until we could get our own apartment so my situation has just become incredabley difficult. I am afraid to break him.
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Im going through the same thing just now. Im looking at places to move to and will happily help pay rent until she finds somewhere else. I dont want to be bad by her but help her to move on. She has heavy dependence on me and is far too clingy. Its all too much. I am going to sit down with her this week and talk it out. Its going to be hard on her but at the end of the day - she will live. Ive been heartbroken before by a girl i was going to marry and i got over it! For anyone else - you need to hit the nail on the head and just do it. Be 100% sure this is what you want and dont look back. DOnt make excuses to stay. Dont take anyones advice - do what YOU want as its your life.
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There are several articles along the side of this page that can help. Be sure to give them a look.
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I dont think anyone has the right answer to your problem. All I can tell you is that if your relationship was built on love, then you have enough confidence that an honest conversation will work it out. Talk to your boyfriend and explain to him how you feel about the relationship and what you have decided to do. Remember to be honest without hurting his feelings.
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Why on earth would you want to leave? Maybe you should try doing different things to make it more insteresting.
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Sounds as if you've been cared for too long - maybe you feel your partner is your mother? Try treating her/him as if they were your lover, be romantic, surprise her/him and change things. Maybe you could try doing a bit of the caring, loving and looking after for once? A relationship isn't a one-sided thing and people are not here to provide entertainment.
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Sounds to me like you have something rare and wonderful that most people never find. Sorry for sounding preachy, but have a long think before giving it up. Instead, find ways to put a spark in your romance. Without getting too explicit, try jumping his bones one day...
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maybe its not that you're bored, but you're just too comfortable and fallen into routine. if there is something you don't like about the way things are, then change them up. there's not reason to just throw someone away cuz they "bore" you. its important to try to make things work before you give up and move on, because chances are the same thing will happen in the next relationship. also, find some time to entertain yourself. do things that make you happy and also find things to do with your partner. you have to be willing to change if you want change.
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