Hell No. If i say goodbye...wont they stop me? Then the same old emotional blackmailing. SUX. Its better ...to stay SHUT ...and do it.

My mom was gonna shoot her self in the head, so she was gonna get every one she loved with her then do it. (she dident do it)

no, i would leave a note i would not be able to actually face them and tell them.

Yes. How else would they know what song to play at my funeral?

When I was in my early teens I thought I wanted to kill myself, I wrote a suicide note thought I had it all planned out, I thought I was going to rid the world & my family of their misery which I thought was me. I got so sick of hurting & feeling like I was just a burden I wanted to end it all. By the grace of god, I made it through was terribly sick for a long time & during that time I realized that life wasnt always going to be that bad. We are in control of our own future, only we can make it better & only we can get out of the painful situations we are living in. I've since lost several loved ones to suicide, I just wish I could've known how bad their pain was & possibly helped them see another way out other then that. My son is left without his father, my friend is left without her son & all thats left is more pain for the ones living & so many unanswered questions. Suicide ain't the way out hon, if you or anyone you know needs help please get it. You are loved by so many people that you don't even know & I'm sure even more by the ones that do know you. I promise it will get better & you will see that life is worth living & there is something to live for. Please don't give up we love you or your friend.

I'd leave a note to my family, my last will and testmant and such, as well as instructions for my funural, et cetera. I'd say good bye to my closest friends, and espesicaly the one I love... I'd let her know that I'd be watching out for her...

I think I would write them letters...

I did write good bye letters, but after some thought, I decided to throw them away. I have been talking to my family and feel ok. I never would tell them I was planning to kill myself. I don't want to be talked out of it or worse, put into the hospital. A note would only keep them thinking about me. I want to be gone quitely so they can just move on.

I was actually thinking about this earlier today, and no, I don't think I would. If I ever end up in this situation, I would probably leave a note.

probely just try, no letter , no good bye. what if it fails? if yor dead u won't care. if you live your busted if you send a note

Your loved ones will most likely talk you out of it. In all likelihood, you would be committed to a mental hospital. Trust me, this is no fun! A good question, though, I debate from time to time. My brother has talked about killing himself and has mentioned some great ways -- he's said he would rent a boat, tie a large anvil or weight to his body and drown himself in the middle of the ocean. This way, the body would never be discovered and it would appear to be an accident. knowing someone you loved has taken their own life is dreadfully painful. Making it look like an accident, in my opinion, makes acceptance come faster. Having said all of this, I'm a fan of spending that one last night or week together -- then quietly sneak out in the middle of the night, and find a nice quiet place to end it.

Not unless you want someone to stop you. +4

If I wanted to make them feel more guilty and screwed up after I was dead, yes. Like they won't feel bad enough, it will probably make them more confused and bewildered than they would already. Selfishness is like that, though.

I only have 1 friend. I have family that wouldn't even wait until I was cold before they would come in here and take what they want to resell it. I don't consider them family . As for will I tell my 1 friend..probably not. He's stressed out enough and doesn't need to deal with it. I will just disappear one day and nobody will even know I am gone.