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  • Talk to him more. Find out why he cheated. In my experience, men cheating is strictly a sexual thing. Men dont have to "love" someone to have sex with them. Find out what the problem is, maybe together yal can fix it.
  • If he's done it before (at least one time that he's confessed to) and you caught him about to do it again... I see a problem here with his commitment to this relationship. Without committment there is no relationship. Perhaps he wants his freedom (whether he will admit it or not) and if that's the case, the worse thing is to continue the relationship with him. Obviously it means more to you than to him. Remaining in that environment will only cause you more pain, you will never enjoy the relationship out of fear that he's out there cheating yet again. Not everyone views sex as a simple 'act'... if that's how he views it and you don't... that's a biggie in your relationship, one worth ending it over.
  • let him sit, give him coffee and talk.. ask if all the basic answer.. why, what, when, who.. if after that you still feel loving him despite of his flaws then goodluck for you and lucky him but if not.. girl.. there are still many fishes in the ocean with different kind and species, you have all the chances and opportunities to choose :) (and kick his butt off as hard as you can! :P)
  • If he cheated, there is either something wrong in the relationship or something wrong with him. Communication is key, so if you want to resolve this with him, talk with him. If you don't feel you can trust and forgive, than that is a whole other issue. If it is a b-friend, you can walk... if it is a husband, that is a deeper commitment and you may need outside help to resolve the issue and decide what the next step should be.

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