Well if you wish to let him use you as a doormat, then that is the course of action to take. Perhaps there is someone else out there who will treat you the way you deserve to be.

no way! I'd confront him even if I didn't want to lose him. If you want to stay with him the issue will need to be sorted out in some way. If he leaves simply because you confront him about it..well perhaps that would be for the best!

I Would First Do a little spying on him , then and there If i still have reason to believe He is having an affair , ( even if i did'nt want to lose him) .. I would go and comfront him and get to the buttom of it .

Depends - do you want to catch an STD?

confront!

I would never ignore a situation that has disregard for my feelings and the relationship. Also.. to suspect your partner of cheating.. you have to be feeling insecure about yourself or there is something different in the relationship that has you unsettled.. meaning he could be cheating. I would tell him that I suspect he is doing something outside of the relationship and tell him that if he is not committed.. we should not be together. I would not make it to where I sounded pathetic and desperate. I would talk matter-of-fact and ask him if there was something he wanted outside of our relationship. I would never ignore it because you have to have self respect, even when you love someone very much.. you have to love yourself. Like other posters have stated.. your health could be at risk and no one should be worth that. Peace of mind should be worth more as well.. when there is a feeling of distrust between two people.. it needs to be worked out. Distrust can build a bridge between two people fast and what caused it needs to be solved. Good luck to you! I hope it is not a matter of cheating but hopefully lack of communication in some area that you can work on together.

If I thought my partner were having an affair I wouldn't want to be in the relationship! I would confront them for sure. Don't let yourself be taken advantage of.