Are you like me.... never in the mood for sex, like ever, once a month at the most?
by 
Miss Cookie Monster
ANSWERS: 76
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Are you male or female? I'm guessing female...and how old are you? Not to be personal, but that has alot to do w/it.
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No, not at all. I'm ready for sex at least once or twice a day. Unfortunately, I don't have a girlfriend. Have you considered taking up chess? ;)
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No way. Have you checked the level of your hormones?
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No, I like having sex every day please haha but seriously sometimes i have to get my bf in the mood cause i like it so much at least 2-3 times a night and i get real horney if i dont do it this much
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If you have had kids this sometimes decreases you sex drive. I don't know if it a hormonally thing or just because your tired. Also antidepressants can have an effect on your sex drive as well.
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I am like you! I could go without sex for a few months if my boyfriend would let me! I dont know why that is. I think it's cause I have children, having kids changes EVERYTHING! Do you have any? If so, that may be why. You may also have depression or a chemical imbalance, that could also mess with your sex drive.
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No complete opposite... Im as horny as Horny McHorny winner of this years "Mr Horny" competition....
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It's also important to look at your diet and how much you drink (alcohol).Not eating enough fruit veg and drinking a lot of alcohol or taking drugs can contribute to feeling sluggish and generally not in the mood for anything.Also,so can depression of which you can get counselling etc.Please see your doctor and explain.He can also test you for iron defiency,thyroid etc.
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I was like that but that was because i didn't fancy my ex partner anymore...i thought it was me....until i met my new chap...now we don't stop! also i don't think the deprovera injection helps your sex drive!
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Honey, is that YOU!!! I didnt know my wife was on here. lol
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Oh no! If it were up to me, I'd have sex everyday. My bf and I normally do it a few times a week.
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it maybe the heat i go off sex when its really hot.
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No! Im the opposite; there's no limit.
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do you have some iron tablets to take? Still get yourself checked out by the doc imho.
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I think it really depends on 3 things. 1. Has his physical experience gone down hill? 2. Does he push you to do it, or ask for it ALL the time? 3.Are u taking him for granted if u answer yes to all of these, theres your answer
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No
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Being 13... what do you think?
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I will pray for you and your partner
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No !! Maybe only if I have the flu or something and am really ill.
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I can relate to you on this matter. Of course I think it is my medicine that I have to be on. I can't do anything about it. I feel sorry for my husband but he is being patient with me. I hope things get better for you and your mate.
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no...but my wife is =(
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I'm pretty much the opposite of you...thankfully, I don't need other people to satisfy my needs.
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I used to be after I had my kids. Now that they are flying from the nest I am hoping to change that, if I can just get my husband "working" again.
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Exactly like you, i would prefer to go to bed with a good book!! i think in my case its cause i have two toddlers who are up at the crack of dawn every morning - do you have young kids? although i fancy my man like mad im always too tired, but im ok really coz he works constant nightshift LOL - no im serious!!
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Nope, I'm the exact opposite of you, and thank god my gf is too.
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hmmpf....maybe once in the month I'm NOT in the mood.
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Yes, never would be just fine with me.
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yes i was, and then i stopped taking the pill. wow what a difference it has made.
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same here.it's been my problem too.you know,I've been married just 1 year ago.it's not because of not being happy with my husband.I'm really happy with him.I also never drink alcohol(someone said it may be the reason).but I believe that the problem is with pills,it is at least one of the reasons.if you found your answer you DO tell me please.
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Not to be critical in any way, because no one can change the way that they feel sexually, but do you think it has to do with sex, or intamacy with your partner? If you love one another, sex seems natural. I do understand some of the comments that have been made about growing children and that many women are overworked and under appreciated by their spouse. Perhaps the problem is rooted in these areas. It's hard to be sexual when your tired, looking after children, keeping a nice home, etc. Anyway, I wish that whatever happiness is for you, that you find it...
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Yes. For some reason I have been like that lately. And the bad part of it is that my man thinks I'm cheating on him because I don't feel like having sex. I don't know why I feel the way I do. I just do.
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Nope. It's been very freeing to have the kids out of the house. We're still young, enjoying our newfound freedom, and still hot for each other! Also, having had a hysterectomy and knowing that there is zero chance of pregnancy has helped me. We can be spontaneous without having to worry about any type of birth control.
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Nope. Definitely in the mood for sex a lot. Ha ha. However, I did date a girl who was only in the mood for sex like once a month. It didn't last very long.
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No. I'm always in the mood for sex.
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No. I pretty much always want it.
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I am always in the mood for it, I am often just too tired to follow through on it. Afternoons are good, though;)
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No. Sex is awesome.
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worse than you! I find it absolutely terrifying. I pretty much base my life on avoiding it! :)
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HMMMMM, have you ever thought that you were asexual. This is gonna sound so weird, I have a friend whos best friend just does not like sex at all. She is super indifferent about the whole idea. She is romantically attracted to people, but not sexually turned on at all. I thought it was weird but if you can have hypersexual people why not have people who dont like it at all.
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a big juicy no for me
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nothing like you.... i have a huge sex drive, i like to have sex at least twice a day....
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Um no - but there are lots of answers to this question which have my heart racing :)
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I'm the complete opposite of you 1st thing in the morning is good lunch time is good around dinner time is good when you 1st go to bed is good but the best time is 3oclock in the morning after you have been lying next to him and play with him being EVER SO CAREFUL not to wake him up till his dick is SO big and hard he is just shy of exploding then you let him wake up and think sex was actually his idea
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Quite the opposite.
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no i like it about 3 times a week. it used to be every day but people get busy and life changes...
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Not at all! Sounds like you need Vitamin B6 and Zinc. Eat some strawberries!
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Absolutely not. I have a strong sex drive. But when I was in my early to mide 20s not so much until late 20s. Now it's really strong. And if you date older guys, their's starts to slow down. Not as much as if they are active but yeah--it's pretty unequal.
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I am. I think my problem is low self esteem. I have always had a low sex drive unless im about to start my menstrual cycle.
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NO Im afaid I am not. I like sex and will take it when ever my man wants to give it up.
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Yes. I believe part of my problem is that I was sexually abused as a child so I feel that engaging in sexual activity is not right. I also think that there is possibly a libito issue.
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LOL "HONEY IS THAT YOU?" THAT IS NOT GOOD. MAYBE YOU AREN'T BECAUSE OF REASONS YOU DON'T REALIZE. HE DOESN'T TURN YOU ON ANYMORE...YOU ARE MAD AT HIM ALL THE TIME (THAT WAS ME - COULDN'T MAKE OUT WITH SOMEONE YOU ARE CONSTANTLY MAD AT!)... OR YOU'RE JUST NOT TRYING. GO TOGETHER AND PLAN A NIGHT JUST THE TWO OF YOU AND GET BACK TO THE SEX! WATCH SEXY VIDIOS AND GET SOME STIMULATION GOING. SEX IS GOOD FOR SO MANY THINGS!
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No no.... I want it frequently :P
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He is always so touchy feel! Loves my body, and wants to be close to me 24 7! Even when we are in the middle of the bar he says "boobies" and touches them! why can't I feel the same? the man is HOT with a body to die for! So why can't I be horny?
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I enjoy holding my girlfriend. Just hanging out. If we did not have sex for a long time, it would be fine with me. I do not crave sex. To me it is not manditory.
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Thanks for posting this, I thought I was the only one. Once a month is good enough for me. It's not that I'm unhappy with my partner, I just lack the desire for it.
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No i could do it twice a day only if my wife wasnt so tired all the time nto even playfull anymore not the she was anyway..
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Yep i am like you, i have a 5 month old and i have no sex drive anymore. I dont find myself sexy anymore, im too tired and well i guess it gets boring after a while in the same bed everyday, more like a chore. Maybe i need some outdoor sex to change it up lol
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ur just evil........
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Nope! I'm the complete opposite. Maybe the man your with isn't trying to please you you know like masturbating but using your body because if he was trying to please you at all you'd want it more than that maybe you don't feel good about yourself or maybe you were told it's bad to enjoy sex... by the way if you were told that it's lie it's good to enjoy sex ... very good
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im like completely opposite 3 to four times a day if the schedule allows it
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YES!!! I almost never want it more than once a month. I think it's a biological thing related to ovulation. Sorry to my husband, but I can't help it.
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You are like my wife.
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I'm like that too, and same as Ruby, but I haven't had children so that's not the problem. Also I tried stopping the pill, and that didn't help either. Sometimes, I'm just so stressed out about work, and I miss my family who are far away, and I'm thinking about the laundry that needs doing, and I don't feel particularly attractive because I'm so exhausted and don't have time to do my hair/makeup....sex is the last thing on my mind!
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my wife is like that also,she says she loves me and the sex is good when we have it but she just thinks its not very important.to me its what keeps us close when we do have sex.i could almost never talk my wife into sex two times in one night or even two days in a roll.
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I used to be - after not having any for years. Recently though, I'm can't get enough!
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No way! Few times a week or more for me please =]
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Yep, Im only 26 and i dont even care if i get some. My mom says i need help.LOL
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Ha ha! I think my wife is posting here too!
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I am the opposite, I want it almost daily some times more then once a day. I dont handle rejection very well and that bothers me cause my gf seems to not care that I get upset, even though I try not to show that I am upset I guess it shows. she notices and get snotty with me cause I am cant handle being rejected.
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My wife is. She never wants to have sex. It sucks. +4
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When I've lost interest in a relationship, my sex drive plummets too. And when I'm single, I hardly think about it at all. I guess women just don't have to have it regularly. I have gone years without it and doesn't seem to affect me. But when I'm in love and totally into someone, then it's harder. I love sex. I have no aversions to it. I just have to be into who I'm with.
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I'm the same exact way! I don't understand how so many people are so hype about sex -- Not that big of a deal. With my now lover though I get into more and more each time
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That happened to me when I started new birth control and my body had to get used to it but now I'm good.
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Not sure how old you are, if your sex drive has always been like this or if this is all pretty recient. My answer is No I love sex, and crave it all the time, when I say all the time I mean there are few exceptions that I don't want it, of course life and responsibilities say I can not have it 24/7 lol...However in my marriage it is one sided for all intents and purposes, it is my husband how has a lack of desire/sex drive...we are currently on 3 almost 4 months w/o being intimate together...so I am stuck with my B.O.B! If you want to change this about you and be in the mood more often then I suggest you go and see your Dr..who can help and give you a Rx that could inhance your desire....Every healthy marriage/relationship deserves a healthy sex life and should have it! B.T.W for me personally seriously thinking of stepping out to fullfill this desire in me sense the love of my life is so unwilling even if I beg!
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Ask any married man. Sex is great when you get married...then you have a baby or two and it's all over. Married men generally only get sex once a month, and sometimes less. Is it any wonder so many married men cheat?
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