Hi, girlfriend is over the last months getting motional, depressed and difficult getting worse. She is 8 weeks pregnate, and we just moved in togeter, I love her but getting tired of everyother day she cries or gets mad. What do I do break up? PLEAS HELP
by 
Anonymous
ANSWERS: 17
-
NO you don't break up! She is pregnant! Her hormones are going crazy. Breaking up is definitely NOT the answer in this case. Just be patient with her, and give her a shoulder to cry on.
-
No dont break up. Its just her hormones!! She will get better further along in her pregnancy. You have to stick with her thats part of having a baby. If u cant handle it imagine how she feels. It will get better I promise....be a man and stick around
-
Depressed I would not say its that, She just is having a baby grow inside of her. Just think by put yourself in her place. Show her that you care and love her by sticking with her.
-
I know how it is when woman are pregnate, I would never leave her alone, I would always be there for her. But this had started before she got pregnate. Thats why I´m nervous.
-
When a woman is pregnant, her hormones go out of control which can lead to depression, mood swings, excessive crying, etc. Right now what she needs is your support. Please try to be understanding and sympathetic. Her body is going through a LOT of really weird things right now, and it's hard on her. Don't take it personally, it happens to every pregnant woman (and their men get to deal with it right alongside them). Once she enters her second trimester things should even out a bit. She may still cry at the drop of a hat, but she will feel much better and won't be so angry all the time.
-
It sounds like you're not ready to be a father. Well, too bad. Deal with it. That kid deserves it. If you think HER cries are bad, just you wait until the baby is born. Get used to it and support your family. If you don't love her, then separate, but support her and your child.
-
Dude, I am here to tell you that I was a drug addict, a complete sonofabitch, and a combat-proven Marine, before my kids were born, but it was then that I became a man(28, and I still wasn't ready). Now is your time to stand and deliver. She needs you. Get over yourself and man up to your responsibilities. If everyone waited till they were ready, the species would die out in a generation. Good luck, it's not an easy road, but the only one to take.
-
Dude, she's eight weeks pregnant and just moved she's under so many hormal changes plus stessed out she's about to lose it. And if she doesn't have your support you could cause her pregnancy to become high risk. Or even miscarry. you need to chill out and grow up. Not only does she need you, but so does that baby you helped create. Time to be a man, my dear, and do what's right and walking out that door because you're a little stressed by some crying is not it.
-
What to do. Go to school and learn how to write and spell, so you can get a good job to help support your family. "emotional", "pregnant", "please"...oh please, give your child the best start possible. I'm not sure why you're making babies when you are not in a committed relationship, but you really need to start thinking about the future, yours and theirs!
-
If /you/ got her pregnant, you can't just move out and leave her to deal with the consequences alone just because you're "tired" of it. If you're in a relationship with someone -- especially if it went that far -- you can't just isolate them, you have to stay with them and go through the ordeal with them. Did you ever think that she may be just as tired of it as you?
-
Women tend to get more emotional when they are pregnant. Their hormone levels are changing and fluctuating, as well as their minds are working overtime in trying to nest, plan and prepare for the new little baby that will soon be coming into their lives. If this is her firts pregnancy, she may be experiencing quite a bit of stress over the situation and needs a comforting, nurturing soul to share her concerns with. Now would be a bad time to break up, but maybe now would be better than later, if you are having second thoughts about your relationship. Hopefully, you will be a supportive father to your child.
-
thats part of being pregnant. being emotional, and think she doesnt get the choice to hang up the emotions and the changes in her body. be her support your the one that got her pregnant so be a man, read some pregnancy books too! I myself am 23 weeks pregnant and prolly worse than your gf at dealing with it and my bf has stuck by myside, if you can get through pregnancy you can get through anything. And dont forget about that beautiful baby you have coming. they both need you!
-
First question, is this your baby? If so, get use to it. its part of being pregnant. Some women cry, some do not. If she is pregnant with your child, how could you even think of breaking up with her, especially now? You must be young and a lot to learn.
-
No offense to you, but you are being SELFISH, especially if you're the one responsible for her being pregnant. Things like that COME with pregnancy. DEAL with it and BE A MAN. If you got her pregnant, she is pregnant with YOUR baby, too. If you really love her, YOU WILL be there for her. This is the time she needs you the MOST. You are being foolish and selfish if you leave her over her getting pregnant, ESPECIALLY if her pregnancy is a result of the two of you having sex. Get over yourself. Maybe she's getting tired of you being a jerk and your attitude might even be causing her stress. Did you ever think about that?
-
Pardon me for being harsh but...suck it up and get over it. It's called being pregnant, girls get emotional and cry and have mood swings, it's all part of it. Be more attentive to her, more loving, caring, do all the little things she needs you to do to show her you care. Leaving her because she is emotional and moody because she's pregnant with YOUR child (I'm assuming) is the most pathetic sorry thing you could do!
-
You did the deed, now you have to deal with the consequences. This is the price of getting her pregnant. During pregnancy women can act randomly and sometimes get on your nerves really bad. Be a man, suck it up, and deal with what you brought upon yourself. Whining about it to strangers over the net won't help a thing. The only thing you can do is be there for your woman and realize that her body is going crazy right now, and that is going to be stressing her out MORE THAN YOU CAN EVER IMAGINE. No man can ever fully understand what a woman goes through when pregnant. Cut her some slack. If you break up with a pregnant woman just because you can't deal with the normal side effects of pregnancy, that would make you the lowest form of scum on this planet.
-
*shakes head* don't break up! That would be the worse thing for you to do. Stick with it! Be Patient! It will get better! she's pregnant!
RELATED QUESTIONS
Copyright 2023, Wired Ivy, LLC