Sexual desire for others does not constitute cheating. Only a physical act, such as holding hands, kissing, sex or sexual foreplay, can be considered cheating. Gee, holding hands? Yes, that would likely be cheating in your girlfriend's eyes. She might even think flirtatious behavior is cheating. Her opinion is the one that counts, even if she has an overly strict idea of what cheating is. You have a real dilemma. It's tough to stay dedicated to a girlfriend when so many attractive women are readily available. The variety is endless; each seems to offer some special charm that your girlfriend lacks. It would be very easy to cashier her. If you do, you will eventually realize how superior she was. You'll probably end up wanting her back. This is a predictable pattern that many guys go through. Chances are your girlfriend will be the best woman you will ever find. This is not a certainty but a probability. It's just the way life works. If you really love her dearly as you say, this is something to think about. Remember also that she may be going through the same thing and having thoughts of trading you in for a better model. Maybe it's time for a serious talk about where the relationship is headed. Please keep in mind that the above statements are not intended to be universal, all-encompassing truths but feedback from one observer.

Don't cheat...masturbate.

To want is human. To act is to cheat.

to me i don't consider this cheating but it's very disrespectful to your girlfriend because i don't think you would like her to be doing that to you. I feel why should you wanna look at any other female if you got the one that you want and love. But then again this is the way i think