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  • Is there a TV show called sexy girls? Or is he just switching it to a show that has sexy girls in it? Because there are probably very few shows on that DONT have sexy girls in them. But if you're sure he's doing it deliberately and it bothers you, bail. Just because his eye wanders doesn't mean he's gonna cheat but if it's that big of a deal to you he needs to know that.
  • Sorry to break it to you, but I doubt you'll find a guy who doesn't like looking at sexy girls. Atleast he doesn't hide it from you.
  • You need sit his happy little butt down and tell him the way he drools over other girls when you're around is not respectful, is not appreciated, and will not be tolerated. A man can appreciate a beautiful woman without acting all stupid and making his partner feel like crap.
  • Let him know that you'd rather watch something that BOTH of you can enjoy, since your favorite pasttime is NOT staring at women on television. Like someone else said, it's kind of hard to find a show on tv that doesn't have sexy women in it.
  • Tell him you want to watch a funny DVD together, and pop in "Guys Gone Wild", or a male stripper video, or something produced by Playgirl. If he complains, ask him why, and what bothers him about watching those movies. THen tell him that's exactly how you feel when he makes you watch "funny shows" with him.
  • What's wrong with a heterosexual young man looking at some sexy girls? It's only natural. But hey doing it when you're sitting right next to him kinda seems cold. But may be the show "sexy girls" is funny or good. What's it about?
  • Guys look at girls, always have always will. It is natural. A guy that does not look at girls may well look at boys instead and that would make him gay. However, this does not mean shoving it in your face without a care - that is disrespectful, hurtful and makes a person feel horribly inadequate in looks, bodyshape, height, weight, hair colour, teeth and so the list goes on. I can remember being paranoid about the same thing and it is an awful feeling sitting next to him and watching it and saying nothing (I used to get quieter and quieter). Try to keep in mind that he sees loads of girls every day of his life and if he really wanted one of them, then why is he choosing to be with you. You could try a little gentle explaination of how you feel and ask him to tone it down a bit. If you tell him to stop doing it altogether then it is likely he will become defensive and difficult and continue on. I'm afraid that there are good looking girls (and boys) everywhere we look as far as the media goes. Take heart though, most of us, the vast majority do not look like hollywood glamour queens, we are not 6ft stunners and we do not resemble Pamela Anderson or anything like. Most of us look OK and I am sure you do as well. Only a tiny few are as beautiful as the people on the screen.
  • Every straight guy like to see a beautiful woman. Go to your television, and flip in to ANY channel. Let 5 or 10 minutes go by. Did you see any 'sexy' girls? How about 'sexy' guys? You probably saw TONS. There are beautiful people on telelvision. Men and women. If they weren't attractive they would work in radio. If he is doing this in PERSON, oogling pretty girls all the time, then you should definitely bring it up to him. Tell him the way it makes you feel, and if he is a decent guy, he will control his horomones. If he doesn't, re-evaluate.
  • Like tell him 2 stop it. U have control w/ that. If he doesn't let u choose otherwise, that wouldn't be a godd quality in a friend.
  • Help him to watch you like them.

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