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I think you can get the answer by reading the answers to this question: http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/307783 Chances are, if you are direct and honest with him, he won't freak out or anything- he will either say yes, and you have the relationship you dreamed of, or he will say no, but by being open and honest with him you now have a much closer friendship.
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Try this on for size. Ask him, "why do you joke about that so much? Do you think about two men having sex is okay"? Then kick back and watch his reaction. I think you'll get an answer in short order... no pun intended.
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(Have I seen your question on Yahoo Answers?) I would approach him in small steps, slow gradual seduction
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I agree that exposing yourself wouldn't be a good first step. ;-)
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I know you said you're not ready to come out, but there might be some answers to some of your questions in these places: 6 steps to coming out: http://www.4therapy.com/consumer/life_topics/article/7244/441/Coming+Out--6+steps+to+coming+out+of+the+closet+as+a+gay+person more coming out resources (this one has more links): http://gaylife.about.com/od/comingout/Coming_Out.htm
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meh, well, the natural male reaction to any inquiry into his sexual preference, especially if he's in the closet, is denial... So, regardless of how you ask him, its a sticky situation. I would suggest not doing it. Not that im too reserved, but past experience has taught me that you tend to only leave yourself open for more issues as opposed to more solutions. Leave that situation to him to figure out in his own time, if he isn't comfortable yet, anything you say or do could just make him MORE uncomfortable, thus marring your friendship.
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In a lighthearted way you could ask him if he jokes with all his friends about this or just you? Ask him if he thinks you might be gay. The answer will hopefully give you an idea of what to say next. If you both drink, then a few together may relax you and open up the conversation more.
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we need to talk! here is my email address sylvian_hyde@live.com my take on this is that he is gay or bisexual str8 guys just don't do that period.
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Hey I think if he is a gay he'll probably come out on you and tell you that he wants you. You can find a way to test him first if he's a gay. I do believe if he is you'll might need to see whether he likes you as a BF or not.
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Personally.. I don;t like to beat around the bush. I'd just ask him 'Seriously, Are you gay? I dont mind' Lol...
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