If you don't get invited to parties, should you have a big one and invite everyone so they get to know you? Does this work?
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Steph
ANSWERS: 6
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No, because some people will abuse the privilege of being asked. Select a few people who you seem to get to know and invite them over for videos and snacks. Then you get to know them better without all the hangers-on causing trouble.
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Yes! I moved from England to France. Immediately I invited all the neighbours. All of them came to the party, not all but most invited me later. Some became, and still are, really good friends and we are still partying years later. :-D
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If you invite too many people they will hardly have chance to speak to you, how about a smaller get togeather, maybe a BBQ with a few drinks, so you can have fun and chat to people.
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That is a good idea, just make sure its not a HUGE party. You don't want it to be impersonal. Small get togethers will give you a chance to talk and get to know one another.
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I'd rather crash a party than clean up a big mess in my house... :)
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It worked for me. I do et invited to parties that my close friends do. But I wanted to meet more people, so I did this really huge party. Only three of my many good friends came, wich I was suprised and dissapointed, but then all the other people I did not really know they came and had a blast. And I don't think they where taking advantage of the situation, since all of them brought their own licor, even though I had provided more than enough for everyone. So I ended up with more people inviting me to their parties or just hanging out, more calls on my cellphone, and lots of free licor bottles. The only bad thing I ended up with was the dissapointment of the people that I really trusted to come but never came.
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