I messed around with this girl a little bit, and now I feel totally guilty, convicted and sad, because I feel like I shouldn't have done it. I didn't have sex with her; how can I feel better?
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CincinnatiDrummer
ANSWERS: 2
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Talk to her and tell her how you're feeling. Just having that chance to get it off your chest with the person involved will be a huge relief.
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Tell her HOW YOU FEEL. 'I feel guilty, convicted and sad because I feel like I shouldnt have messed you around' pretty much wrote your appology yourself :] not that youre sorry, shes probably heard that all before. Not that you regret it, you'll make her feel un desired and worse. Just make her feel wanted and that its not her fault. Buy her a few tulips or something just to suggest JUST how worried and bad you feel. she should respect you so much more for it, not many decent guys CARE wnought to appologise after. hope this helps. you seem abit too genuine, aha most guys who've used me never felt bad or said sorry.
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