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  • You need to speak to someone you can trust and ask them if its true and then when you are satisfied it is true, ask him. Then if its true, leave him for keeping such an important part of his life secret from you. You deserve much better. Also you are underage. He knows better and I believe he is after you for something.
  • listen to your head. its telling you the truth. first off you're a little young to date 22 year olds.. and most guys here will tell you theres only one reason a 22 year old wants to date a 16 ear old.... if hes lying to you know, you can trust him.. its best to move on to someone closer to your age.. who is legal...
  • ask him about it.
  • Sorry, but it sounds like this guy is just playing you. Why else would a 22 year man want to be with a 16 year old girl? If you're hearing these rumors from several people, they are probably true. You're 16! You should be out having fun with your girlfriends and boys your own age!
  • Sounds like he's cheating on her to be (sometimes) with you. Won't be long before he'll be cheating on you, too. Move on. You'll get over him.
  • He should be in jail, you are a child, you need to focus on school, your friends, and what you are gonna do with your life. Love is not important you are. Be a beautiful successful woman, and in a few years if he can handle that (if he isnt married with kids) see if he still wants you. Any respectable man who cares about you will want you to better yourself..Ask yourself, what do you have to offer him, your a child. Get your own life together. We have all been in your shoes, and some of us follow the man, but those who do wish they could go back and choose the other path... **Prediction: You start going with him forget about school, college, and being a strong independent woman....start thinking about diapers, stretch marks, and a life of unhapiness.....Know you can take care of yourself first. Then find a man, cuz if you decide you dont want him you will always know you can take care of yourself...Never depend on anyone but you
  • listen to me.....please...... love shouldn't be that hard. if a person is being honest with you there should be no reason to ever doubt them. 22 year old boy.....i can guarantee you that he doesn't actually love you the way you think love should be. you don't deserve the crap that comes along with young boys believe me don't date him. when you meet the right person you'll know. im 30 and divorced! and i just found the one.....so don't rush it and odds are hes a jerk and is not being honest!
  • That's nothing, one of my friend who was 13 at the time was seeing a 44 year old, (who was married by the way!!)they went out for a long time, and he was using her, behind his wifes back, (he then of course lost everything from him wife when she filed for a divorce) So he had no choice to move in with my friend at her apartment. Well anyways when she was 19 she came home from work and found him having a heart attack, he was 50 at the time, and he died in the hospital. I'm sorry I guess I really didn't need to explain all that, I just thought it was funny that my friend was crazy for that idiot!!!!! I think any teenager that's not 18 and older shouldn't be going out with any older guy... IT'S SICK ANYWAYS, THAT A OLDER GUY IS WITH A KID... I KNOW I WOULDN'T WANT MY DAUGHTER TO DO THAT..... JUST LET HIM GO,BEFORE HE REALLY HURTS AND USES YOU. I know you can't see it now, but in the long run you'll understand...
  • Im a male and let me tell you girl you are too young, do not let this guy ruin your life. If you watch MSNBC you might see him on the show about predators. Ha ha ha live your life happy, way too young, take your time, lose this loser
  • Depends on how long you've known him.. but then again his soon to be wife has probably known him much longer. The guy probably tells the girl he's engaged to that he loves her everyday too.. don't fall for that cheap crap.. he's using you for one last score before he gets married. He'll probably tell his good drinking buddies about you and how you just fell into the trap. Once he's married he's going to forget you and move on with his life. You can do so much better.
  • Sorry to hear that ... i think you have to keep going with your life... and you still young and you still have time to find your true love... don't believe him cuz he told that he "loves you"...don't be sad because of him you deserve better and you are better off with him... have some hope ... don't worry youll find what your looking for...
  • You are young, believe me. At 17 I convinced myself I was in love and married the guy days after turning 18 and we divorced just a few short years later. If there's a rumor mill going on that he's engaged, I'd step back and avoid him as much as possible, despite the budding love you're claiming to have. Get out before you get too deep.
  • My best friend was in a similar situation, we were all worried that he would take advantage of her or whisk her away to Las Vegas to get married. But if he's already married, you should definitely leave him. He's a grown man playing a childish game and there are so many more fish in the sea for you to choose from.
  • Well first off you are under age and he should be arrested for rape. Secondly if he engaged to married he is probadly just using you if you all are sexually active. But I would talk to him and get things out of the open.
  • Ask him about it. If it's true, dump him. If he's willing to cheat on someone he asked to marry, he'll be more than willing to do it to you.
  • i think he is much more interested 2 sexually exploit u dear.. u r 2 young 2 actually know love dear.. and its easy 2 befool u and dats wat he's doing... sooo bcum a bit intelligent.. u r young but not blind... run away..
  • Alright, I really don't feel the age difference is what needs to be addressed here. If you honestly feel that you two are in love and you don't know him well enough to answer a question as simple as "Does he have a fiance?" then there is a bit more wrong with this relationship than the age difference.
  • you're only 16 and the guy's an adult! there's still more people for you out there!
  • This was two years ago so you've probably already solved your problem, but my answer would be to get rid of him and move on.
  • First, a 16 year old CHILD has absolutely no business dating a 22 year old MAN! ..... and vice-versa! You are a MINOR and he is an ADULT. If your parents know about this relationship they should tell him (if they haven't already) to get lost and stay lost. You might hate them for it, but it's truly in your best interest. The guy is a USER....what's so "amazing" about that! Tell him to get lost - you're NOT in love ..... you're only an INFATUATED 16-year old. You'll probably think your world is crashing all around you, but eventually you'll realize you and your parents did the right thing.
  • First of all let me start off by saying at 16 years old... you live in a completely different world than a 22 year old. You have no business messing around with a 22 year old. You are young and I know this is going to suck to hear, but you are not in love with this man and he is not in love with you. He's engaged to be married and your still messing around with him? You know what that girls going to do if she finds out about you. What do you think she'd do? I know if I was here and I found out that someone my man worked with was a love sick little girl like you are with him I'd march my happy ass right down to his work and let her know who's there to stay. She has a ring on her finger not you. You need to back off and find someone your own age. Stop playing big girl games and go back to your teenage stuff.
  • maury maury maury
  • Move on. First, you are too young. Second, he's engaged. Why would you want to be with a guy you know is a cheat?
  • if everyone at work is telling you he is engaged why do you choose not to believe everyone. he is taking advantage of you, lying and being a jerk to his finance. wake up. plus your a legally a minor and he's an adult.
  • well... thats why questions excist. to get answers.. so go ask him if its right.. if he lies about it somehow try find out who it is...the coworkers might help.. but still youre a little too well.. youre 16 focus on school... but honestly though.. just ask.

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