ANSWERS: 17
  • Life babe! Life.
  • It would seem he has left the relationship with you for an unknown reason, maybe that he couldnt talk to you about, and then went and got someone else. Sorry this has happened to you.
  • He needed sex, you weren't there. He found someone to give him sex, he liked her better and decided to give you up for her. This sucks but I am sure this will bite him in the ass eventually.
  • I'm concerned..... Did you to have an agreement? Did you talk about how he felt if you studied abroad? Did you promise each other to be faithful while you were gone? That might be what is going on.The lines of communications were not drawn.Men are very matter of a fact.If something is not said mentioned or talked about it becomes a none issue.Perhaps you were giving him mixed signals? Think very hard and talk to him about it.Did u want to be with him? Did he know that? I'm telling you this so you never have to go threw this again.Plus closure is very needed for your piece of mind right now !!!!!!!
  • he's a jerk.
  • Sounds like he was full of shit. Good riddance.
  • time to burn the letters i'm afraid
  • He was unable to remain faithfull. He let his base urges controll his thought process and gave in to a convenient source of pleasure. Not someone worth your time or company if you ask me. :( Sorry this happend to you, I hope you find someone worthwhile :) Best wishes
  • Life intrudes. You both were growing, maturing and becoming different people, despite the best of intentions.
  • He got hard you were not there he waited a woman saw he was excited size does matter as well as being larger due to not having your woman with you. She engaged in conversation or got her hands and knees or whatever she did to get near him and made his knees shake and he had the big O..... However he could have lied as if nothing had happened, it's hard to say in this type situation what the intent was, did he love you but was unfaithful because he was human or was he a lying POS. There really isn't enough data t provide you with a answer beyond a guess.
  • He probably was not liking the fact that he didn't have physically contact with someone (not necessarily sex) so since you are not...he essentially replaced you. However, I do almost guarantee you that he will be begging for you back once you come home. But if he can't hold out for you while you are away...he's definitely not a keeper!
  • Life. A lot of the people who are looking at him as a jerk here have probably never been in that situation. I've never been in it, either, but I am probably going to have to be going through it soon and I'm afraid that this kind of thing is going to happen to me, too. Feelings can change. People can change. He hasn't seen you as much as he has before. A new person came into his life who probably gave him the attention he was missing. This doesn't mean 'you' have done anything wrong.
  • It certainly wasn't nice of him, rather cowardly. You're probably better off without him. It just goes to show how true 2 Timothy 3:1-5 is when it describes the attitudes of people in the last days as "disloyal, having no natural affection, etc. Wishing you the best.
  • Do not get upset, you should be happy. This kind of guys is not worth it. You consider yourself lucky, if you got married and had a baby then you found out he had a girl friend or he cheated. Then your life will be terrible. I have a lot of friends or relatives got the same experience.
  • Do not get upset, you should be happy. This kind of guys is not worth it. You consider yourself lucky, if you got married and had a baby then you found out he had a girl friend or he cheated. Then your life will be terrible. I have a lot of friends or relatives got the same experience.
  • When love is strong and/or new it is overwhelming and there is a genuine feeling that the love will go on forever so that's what people say. Regardless of what is said there are no guarantees in this regard and damn few hearts that won't be broken at least a couple times. It might happen again but you have to take that risk so get up, dust yourself off, and move on. One bit of advice: don't look for the love of your life, look for a best friend and a partner who can also be a lover.
  • Those things he said no doubt you wanted to hear and he likely believed them himself. But people change and circumstances become different - that I what is going on. You invested your time and effort in foreign study because that was important to you. So you were not around for him. But even had you been around for him it still could have happened that way. Nothing is "forever" but we just like to believe it is.

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