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  • If you are the rep and basicly have the final say, then you know what to do. Do the right thing.
  • I would do as the will says if thats how your dad wanted it.
  • thanks for the advice! I knew in my heart what the answer was, seems I have no one to talk to since I lost my best friend, my dad. It's so hard to do the right thing when you have no one to back you up. I will try to stay strong and do as my dad would want me to do.
  • It would be better to have mediation if it goes that far. Perhaps your church can help. If not, here are some links and someone will be able to help you locate peacemaking/mediation services in your area. I will also include a phone number. http://peace.fresno.edu/ http://peace.fresno.edu/links.php Center for Peacemaking and Conflict Studies Mailing address: 1717 S. Chestnut Ave. #2202, Fresno, CA 93702 Physical address: 4882 E. Townsend Ave., Fresno, CA 93727 Telephone: 559-453-3418 | fax: 559-453-3417 | toll-free: 800-909-8677 email: pacs@fresno.edu
  • Contact a probate lawyer. We had a similar situation in my family and it was best handled by the lawyer and the moderator.
  • I have seen this same situation before. You are the executor of the estate? It is a very sad situation,one someone passes away and people are not equal exp family.When my grandmother passed she left her rare rare coin collection and her car and her bed room set to me every one in my family knew that she sead that since I was born what I would get and when she passed my aunt was the executor and her and my other aunt and my mom fault over everthing. I really dont care about stuff, I know my grandmother was watching there greed and she is not happy. I have seen my grandmother in my dreams and she knows the truth.You have the main control just for your info.Get a money hungry probate attroney.Everyone wants there slice.They got the stuff but I didnt care,in my eyes my grandmother is better that stupid stuff.
  • It's best, in this case, to have an outsider mediate. In Australia, we have the Public Trustee who will sort things out. There must be similar positions in other countries. THese fights are all too common, sadly. I wish people would just let things be distributed as the person themselves wanted.

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