Well after a while weed can make life much less interesting. Teenage years everyone feels "depressed" wouldn't put a lot of trouble behind that. I did the exact same thing. Personal advice from me to you is to drop the marijauna habbit. It'll slow you down and waste time you'll only wish you could have back later in life. Get out and do more! Take a walk with your lady, play some sports, just get active my friend! Hope you find the will power to stop smoking. It's for the best.

All three. Get rid of the weed, that will only make things worse in the long run. Stay with the girlfriend, and get a JOB.

Weed can make you depressed and if you have an imbalance it can really enhance a depression. At 16 your body's chemical levels are haywire and you should be very careful what you do to enhance or change them.

My fella was well into the weed in his early twenties and his lovely friends stuck around all through that period. They tell me now he was boring, uncommunicative and a pain in the rear when he smoked all the time. He lost at least one girlfriend becuase of weed. It doesn't upset everyone like that but it does something similar to my 19 year old son. We can always tell when he's been smoking, because he's a vacant when he's high and when he's coming down he's grumpy depressed and a pain. My advice is save the money from the weed, put it towards some concerts or a festival trip with your girlfriend. If you are bored when you give up weed get down the gym or get a weekend job, it will soon widen your interests. It is possible that you could be depressed, it's important to point this out. When I went for advice about my son's weed use, my family doctor told me that abuse of weed, rather than occassional use, was something he would tell a patient to avoid if they were feeling depressed, just to see if that was the cause. I see that you're wise enough to realise you've got a problem, I'm sure you'll see a solution here or in another way.

I smoke weed, but not regularly. I would advise you to do the same!! It gives you high's easy but u dont feel down and depressed, and if you do it with mates and they egg you on just try and say no, its extremly hard but it does work. You will get so much respect from your girlfreind, the two of you will probably get closer as your spending more time with her. Music can make you also feel down aswell. I recommend listening to something like speed metal, or if you dont like that kind of stuff then just listen to something that has a fast tempo which you can dance around to. Its almost impossible to be addicted to weed! There is almost no nicotine in it what so ever!! Like you i am 16 but i find it useful to talk to your parents about it. My dad used to do it alot but he got a job and started to go to gigs!! I dont think its depression, i would have thought that that is phocological(sorry for spelling) But if you feel that you smoke weed and one of the effects is that you will get depressed then it has to happen to you, personally i think thats all bull-shit, but i lost a family member to weed, they got paranoid like crazy and killed themself, thankfully i never knew them but still it gives you second thoughts! just dont do weed as much and spend alot more time with your girlfreind

I would say all of the above. Ditch the weed, join a club or get a job or something. It isn't easy being a teenager, but staying busy seemed to help me.

Probably a little of all of it...

The weed may be part of your problem. At 16, your brain is still developing and has enough problems of its own without screwing up its metabolism with foreign substances. Try giving it up and see if there isn't an improvment.

I can only speak from my own personal experience but I went through that at around the same age. I didn't smoke weed tho. I think as you age, your priorities start to change as you come into adulthood and there is a short limbo where nothing seems to matter. What seemed to be important to you as a kid just doesn't cut it anymore. Things'll look up soon :)

music weed and a girlfriend- how happy do you want to be.;

u should find a hobby. smoking weed is a good hobby. i smoke about an ounce a week. i also drum. try playing an instrument. or ask ur GF for some sexy time.

DUDE you have weed music and a girl!! Live it up! If you feel like something is missing, go seek it out. If your just worried that your supposed to be doing something that everyone is saying you should do, smoke another joint. It's your life and if you know your not depressed don't let people tell you you are.