Is it considered cheating if you have a boyfriend, but you can't help but liking another guy? but you dont make any moves on him or anything like that? it's just an emotional like, and he likes you, but u say you dont want to hurt ur bf?
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Miss. Tandra
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if you don't do anything i don't consider it cheating. you cant help how you feel for someone. love just happens, especially the unwanted kind.
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i think you should leave your boyfriend and follow your heart and if he soothes you emotionally than he is the guy for you.
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I don't think that unless you are married, that you can't "cheat" Marriage implies an exclusive relationship not only by your vows but by law. If you are committed, then you seal the deal, otherwise it's an open relationship.
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it's not physically cheating.. its emotionally cheating..either way, if your boyfriend found out, he'd be heart broken. at least you know your physical boundary lines and i applaud you for that.. i'd follow your heart though or at least try to figure out what this person has that your boyfriend doesn't. from there you can figure out whether its worth breaking up with your boyfriend or not.
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I don't think you're cheating if you're not allowing yourself to act on your feelings, and you're not trying to have these feelings. You really can't help how you feel. That said, if you feel this way for the other person, perhaps your boyfriend isn't really the right person for you?
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I've heard of an emotional affair, where you're getting something emotionally that you're not getting from the person you're dating, but you do from someone else. I wouldn't say you're cheating on your boyfriend, though. It's a crush, sounds like to me. I think you should think about it, whether you want to be with your boyfriend, or someone who satisfies you emotionally.
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