My boyfriend has been texting and hanging out with his ex alot, she still likes him and we both know it. He doesn't see anything wrong with it, he says that if i trusted him it wouldn't bother me, am i over reacting and what should i do?

"If he ain't gonna love you the way he should then let him go" Sorry, this happened to me recently too. When I confronted him about it he was more concerned with defending her and their clandestine friendship than respecting my feelings. Let him go. There are other men out there who will love and respect you. I know this isn't the answer you want to hear...I didn't either, but I wish someone had told me the same thing to save me some heartache and a whole lot of drama. Good luck to you ;)

If he knows that she still likes him and he is continuing to have communication with her he must still like her as well.

I would not play second fiddle to anyone.

Either he shoots his arrows straight at you or dump him and find someone else.

Continuing to converse with his old flame is not a good sign for you.

Second fiddle, second fiddle......thats you.

I have the same issue. He stays at her apartment overnight sometimes and tells me nothing happens. Every time I confront him he tells me I don't trust him and makes me look like I am in the wrong. I am fed up and at the point of letting him go. I agree there is not respect. Worse part is he will go to her and not even tell me he is there. I have at to go to her apartmetn and find his car there to prove it.

Here's what you should do...
Find a male friend who cares about you to agree to a night out as a foursome... and suggest to your boyfriend that you know someone you think would be perfect for the other woman!
If your man is happy to go out with everyone together, trust issue solved. If he is reluctant, but will do it... trust issue still solved. If he freaks - push the limit... I agree with ashymama - ultimatum time.

honey i am in the same situation.i am the ex and he knows i still love him,everytime we get a chance we hook up,talk,text and call eachother.and we dont talk about whats going on in eachother's life;regarding relationships.nothing matters when we are together.i hope this tells you something

You are definantly not over reacting. If it bothers you that much you need to tell him to either pick either being with you or talking to her. If you don't then its going to cause lots of problems between you guys. I've been through it.

Sounds like he likes the attention or still likes her. Either way he is egging it on and its wrong. Disrespectful toward you. His ex needs to move on and let go. How do you trust someone that wants to hang out with his ex? Someone is having there cake an eating it too. Maybe you should try hanging out with your ex and see how he feels or dump him.

Dump him!!!! I am a single 48 yo male. This is not how a "committed" man should act. He is a scumbag!