ANSWERS: 7
  • How many kids will it take for you to realize the guys useless except for one obvious thing I guess
  • You need a reality check. You are responsible for 5 human beings. You need to find some help from friends, family, agencies, church whatever is available to you to make sure that your children do not suffer until you can resolve the issues between you and your ex. In the mean time, get the best job you can and if you cannot support your family on your own with it get government help while you go to school to be able to get a better job. It will take dedication and sacrifice on your part but will be well worth the effort.
  • Go to your solicitor and get them to draw up a contact agreement between you and your ex. Move on, don't be afraid to ask for help before it gets too hard for you to cope. Good Luck!
  • I would say dont have anymore kids with anyone till your married. Legally the only obligation this man has is to pay support not to actually physically take care of the children.I would concentrate on finding someone who will want to help you look after these kids as well as yourself instead of a man who obviously isnt responsible enough to want to.
  • If he left you when you had 3, why on earth would you continue reproducing? Did you think it was going to make your life easier? The best thing you can do is ask for child support to help you out financially, but you can't force him to help you take care of them unfortunately. The best advice I can offer is take it one day at a time, otherwise you'll get overwhelmed.
  • Get a good lawyer, and turn your CAPS OFF.
  • You need to seek legal help on collecting childsupport from this man. This man really does not deserve to see his kids that often.

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