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Metaphiz
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Self hatred. If someone rejects you, it confirms to you how you feel about yourself. Somewhere along the way, someone told them (them, meaning anyone) that they were horrible, or they somehow learned it themselves, and in depressed states, people tend to go toward what they know. They aim for people who will confirm for them how horrible they think they are.
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Because they had emotionally unavailable parents who repeatedly rejected them; rejection is familiar and their default setting and love and acceptance are unfamiliar, so subconsciously they push it away.
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