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by Hyper on April 29th, 2007

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2 of my best friends like me more than a friend. They don't know i know. I don't want to say, as i like a different girl [not involved now but think she likes me also], in case i hurt them and our friendship but feel i'm leading them on. What should i do?

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  • by Sin Binned on July 24th, 2007

    Sin Binned

    Be honest and follow your heart! We cant tell you who to love, be gentle and honest, this will take you far in life!!!

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  • by eRiNxDuH on April 29th, 2007

    eRiNxDuH

    Well aren't you a ladies man??
    trust me, i've got a friend like this and all the girls get pissed and fight over him because they think he's cute. He's just got a new girlfriend and lemme tell ya--They will probably be mad at you or something...but you won't notice because you'll be with the girl you wanna be with.

    P.s--Girls will always be jealous but we learn to adjust<3

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  • by webkinz on April 29th, 2007

    webkinz

    Tell your friends that you like that girl but dont be too hard on them. then tell the girl you like her. make sure you dont : sweat , studder , trip , or anything else emberressing. if she doesnt like you go back to your friends and tell them. dating a girl doesnt mean you cant have friends! GOOD LUCK

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  • by BiggMo on May 21st, 2008

    BiggMo

    if i were in your place i would ask the girl out. if she says no your problems over. if she says yes make plans with her but before you go out tell your(girl)friends that your going on a date. I am sorry man someones felling are bound to get hurt in this love triangle... i mean square.

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  • by Sheepingly needs no handy men only hugs on July 5th, 2007

    Sheepingly needs no handy men only hugs

    You tell them the truth. That you aren't interested in them only as a friend and that you are interested in dating someone else. THe longer you go without talking to them about it the longer you are leading them on which will make things worse

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  • by Nocableoj on July 5th, 2007

    Nocableoj

    Take a chance with getting involved with the girl you like first and foremost. Don't go out of your way to let them know, they will find out, but also don't keep it from them or they will get the wrong impression. Let them know that you know via your inaction towards whatevering... with them. They probably either turn it up a notch or play it cool. If you are successful with the other girl then they can't be mad at you or be hurt (and if they are they won't blame you) since they weren't direct enough. The only real problems are if they turn it up. THEN you've really got to figure out how to eloquently state your postion without hurting feelings. Good luck, I've had to get out of this situation several times so I hope that helps. Be honest, but you don't have to play all the cards at once. If you can't ever see yourself hooking up with either of them, then don't worry so much about it, as these things tend to work themselves out.

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  • by Courtney on March 27th, 2008

    Courtney

    people are always asking this same question after they find out somebody likes them what do they do?
    all you guys have to do is talk about to the person and get it over with. its better to talk about it then to avoid it. i used to try to avoid it all the time and it just made it worse. just talk it over with the girl about you leading her on
    most girls do understand those things they may get mad and think your a piece of shit for a while(thats only on certain girls tho, maybe this one isnt)but the talking helps them and yourself
    its gets all the weight off your chest from holding in the pain for so long

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  • by Addie47 on September 16th, 2010

    Addie47

    I would tell then you know, and then say you don't want anyone to feel threated or something. Tell them you don't want to ruin the friendship you guys have. Say that you'll be happy as long as they are and they should be happy as long as you are. Things might a lot better than you think.

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  • by pascaline on August 13th, 2009

    pascaline

    Get with the girl you like, duh.

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  • by Treval on August 5th, 2010

    Treval

    I've been in a similar situation [Just reverse the genders involved :P] and well...I ignored it. If they don't know that you know - then why worry about it? Get with the girl you like, and if they have a problem with it, well...that's *their* problem, not yours.

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