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I always think the most important thing is to break out of the role she has cast you in, inside her head. For instance, is she is a popular girl with lots of guys trying to go out with her, start a conversation about what a nuisance that must be for her, and explore and sympathise with her strategies for protecting herself. That way, suddenly, by identifying with her view of them, you are no longer one of them. Another example. You fancy a girl behind the till in a store. Say something like "Hi, I don't know how you manage to keep smiling with some of these customers, how long has your shift been so far ? It must be tiring on your feet this long". Suddenly you are no longer one of those faceless customers, but a real person capable of seeing things through her eyes. This is a basic strategy I have used with great success to break through that first barrier, so that I then get at least a chance to show her how nice and caring I am, and how different from all the others. Let her see that you can look at things from her point of view. It's called empathy, and its the first step to a turn-on. Good luck.
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just show her that you like her but dont over do it you might scare her away just be yourself and have fun it would give her something to remember
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HERE YOU GO BRO, you asked, so... Make eye contact, alot. but not overly. at some points, stare into her eyes and smile, a little smile. tease her, dont act so available, make her work alittle.she will automatically be attracted to that. before you spend time w/ her, go out and smile while saying hello to at least 8 or 9 women a day. then go to hello, slowly and flirtfully, whats your name. (eye contct) doing this builds up confidence wth women. when you meet her, you will be shining, inside. might this work with any woman you like?...........
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