My husband could masturbate to anything he liked as long as he's only having sex with me. Even if it was something really nasty like poo or midget clowns.

Don't worry.

as long as he wasn't into rape or snuff i don't care what kinda bizzare stuff he masturbates too.

I am very open-minded on most things. But I don't like snuff. It tells me a lot about the men who watch it.

In regards to the kinds of porn, in my view, it doesn't really matter what kind it is, as long as it doesn't transfer over into reality (and when I say this I'm only talking about the really deep/dark or very unconventional kinds of porn: for example rape, incest, scat, etc etc.) There's some porn of course that can be playfully reenacted with your partner, but in our cases it's fun and hot 'because' it's a fantasy. There are some couples out there (including me and my Dom) who roleplay things like rape and incest, but in no shape or form would we ever do that kind of thing in real life, or are even turned on by it outside of the fantasy. For example my Dom and I have a RP of the classic Daddy/little girl, and that's hot in fantasy, but it has absolutely nothing to do with reality, we both think it's sick and wrong in that case. It's more so the dominant/submissive thing. As for the character question, I have to say (from what I've experienced anyway) that no one has the right to judge a man's character based on his porn likings. If you met my Dom in real life, not as a Dom but just as a man, whether professionally, personally, etc, you'd never think (in a conventional state of mind) that he would be into what I just mentioned. He's mature, honest, generous, loyal, integral, understanding, sweet, caring, funny, etc etc, as well as an honest businessman. Men can be 2 different men in regards to their sexuality and the rest of their life. Look at the classic situation of a high powered executive, married with a family, hard worker, ambitious, generous, etc, who likes to be tied up, spanked, collared, and made to crawl around on his hands and knees and eat from a dog dish in the bedroom. The 'kind of person' a man is can be totally separate from their kinks and sexuality (which can be something someone has no control over in regards to what turns them on)

So long we still have sex! But really, I don't keep tab on his 'kinds' of porn, tho I know full well its nothing too far-fetched. At 23, I look plenty young and at 26, he has a real appeal to the 'jailbait' lolita listing. Amature emo-scene chicks with tastes in experimentation to be precise! Now see, thats fine and I tease the man casually because I associate that interest with his person, that he's into the young punk girls he knows full well he won't be dating any time soon!

I don't mind my so watching porn. However i think thats because its the normal kind of stuff (just from the stuff i've stumbled upon). I don't think i'd be happy if i found acted rape and young looking girls pretending to be underage etc. I think the porn a man searches out does say a lot about the real him.