ANSWERS: 8
  • Run do not walk... If things didn't end badly, they wouldn't end at all. It either is working or not.... NO amount of pretending it's right will make it so.
  • If you're not sure, don't go running back to him... or don't go back to him at all. You will almost always have some sort of feelings for an ex, but that doesn't mean that you're meant to be with them. If there was a reason for you guys to split, it will probably come up again, and again, and again. Until one or both of you can't handle it anymore. Sometimes, though it sounds selfish, you have to think about yourself and what you want to be happy. It can be hard to hurt someone you care about, but don't get back into something if your heart is not in it. Taking him back and THEN realizing he it isn't going to work will hurt him much, much more than if you do it now. I'm a firm believer that if it didn't work out the first time there was a reason for it.
  • You are not ready to go back...This is your decision. Don't do it to keep from hurting him. Of course you have feelings for your ex...we all do. But sometimes you have to realize that your feelings are all based in memories not in the reality of now.
  • Just take it slow..one day at a time. Maybe you just need time to find yourself and then you can work on that. if he truly loves you, he will wait until you are 100% sure on what you want to do. :)
  • What does your gut tell you? If you don't feel that it's right, then don't do it. Trust yourself and your instincts. They are usually spot on.
  • once before i gotten back together with an ex that i had loved very much before i was 100% sure if that was the right think to do. we stayed together for 7 months after that, and it was always an inner battle with me, because i was scared. needless to say, it didn't last...and i think part of that reason was because i hadn't given myself proper time to pull myself together to date him (or anyone) again. just ask for some time because you need to figure things out, and don't feel rushed. if he really, truly wants you back, he'll wait.
  • play it by ear..If you feel like its worth another shot i say go for it if not tell him that you just wanna be friends..
  • the absolute truth. exactly what you have said here. if you are so uncertain, the odds are that you will hurt him again.

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