I like a girl from a different school. She likes me. She's dating another guy and doesn't think she wants to break up with him yet. She wants me to ask her to my homecoming dance even though she's dating someone else. What should I do?
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ricc0luke
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You should ask her to go to the homecoming with you. Now you should make it clear that you are reluctant to take her because she is involved with someone else but as long as the 'date' is merely platonic then it is acceptable. However you could violate the unwritten rule of not going for another man's claim but that is your perogative. Whilst on this 'date' then you should try and get to know each other alot better and let her find out who/what she really wants. Again you should not make any moves until she is single and again that is your perogative to do so.
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The one thing i dont get is why guys are flattered at this. I think about it this way, If they Cheat on their boyfriend and wants u to come with them... Then what makes u think they wont do the same to u once u 2 are goin out?
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she abviously doesnt like you enough if she is dating this other loser, me and this other kid have the same thing, but we wont ever date anyone else, and we wont date either, becasue we do better as friends, but i think that if she can have a bf and not want to break up with him then she can not love you with all of her heart, i say forget bout her, find the true one for you. i mean why do u really like her?
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Tell her to make up her mind. Respect her relationship, even if she doesn't. Treat her how you'd want other guys to treat her if she were your girlfriend.
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dance just dance
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I think she is a tease and just loves the attention from guys! she will do to you what she is doing to her BF now
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Ask her!
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you should lose her number ... unless getting treated like a doormat is what you are into ...
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Don't take her to the dance. It sounds like she is using you just to go to your homecoming dance. Find a girl that really wants to go as your date.
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I've never been a fan of the romantic games - they get old really quickly. Give her an ultimatum. If she truly wants to be with you, she'll dump the other guy. If she doesn't, you'll go and find somebody that will. Don't waste time and energy on someone who will only mess with your head. It's never worth it.
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She just wants to play belle of the ball. Next time you see her, tell her that you've already got someone lined up for the dance, you just want to have some fun. And say thanks, but no thanks.
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