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by Anonymous on April 13th, 2007

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I need my family back.wife to the kids.I had mentally abused her.I have PTSD from military.Iam getting help for problem.I was left alone when I was a child.Idon't mean to be like that it's not who I really am or who she married.I need some advice please

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  • by migarce on April 13th, 2007

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    You need help from a family advisor.You must consider changing your behaviour and a few techniques could be relevant like meditation and neurolinguist programming.
    Please see
    http://home.att.net/~meditation/MeditationHandbook.html
    Also
    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Neuro-linguistic_programming
    and
    http://www.nlpinfo.com/

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  • by Sharona Life is a Tale Told by an Idiot on May 20th, 2009

    Sharona Life is a Tale Told by an Idiot

    Instead of chasing after what you think you want, focus on getting help for you. All of those things you imagine you need to correct and make better is just a way to cover fear. You are not well yet. If you were, you would not be telling yourself what you think you are. You will be turning your wife into a babysitter and you are still to vulnerable to be in any relationship. What if she leaves you again? Can you handle it? I think she is not the person you hoped she would be or you would not be so surprised that she said enough. I hope she stands her ground and you need treatment.

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  • by Anonymous on April 14th, 2007

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    I have seeked a doctor to help me handle my problem.I was mentally abusing her because It was done to me as a child. I had no idea that Iwas doing that to her. We known each other since I was 8 and she was 3.I love her with all my heat and soul. I blame my mom for what I am now facing today. My wife is afraid that I will hurt myself. I tried to committ suicide because of my childhood. I was hurting her mentally and I had no Idea I am going to counseling for this monster

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  • by Anonymous on April 14th, 2007

    Anonymous

    I have seeked a doctor to help me handle my problem.I was mentally abusing her because It was done to me as a child. I had no idea that Iwas doing that to her. We known each other since I was 8 and she was 3.I love her with all my heat and soul. I blame my mom for what I am now facing today. My wife is afraid that I will hurt myself. I tried to committ suicide because of my childhood. I was hurting her mentally and I had no Idea I am going to counseling for this monster

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  • by Anonymous on April 14th, 2007

    Anonymous

    I have seeked a doctor to help me handle my problem.I was mentally abusing her because It was done to me as a child. I had no idea that Iwas doing that to her. We known each other since I was 8 and she was 3.I love her with all my heat and soul. I blame my mom for what I am now facing today. My wife is afraid that I will hurt myself. I tried to committ suicide because of my childhood. I was hurting her mentally and I had no Idea I am going to counseling for this monster.

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  • by YouWinImOuttaHere on April 13th, 2007

    YouWinImOuttaHere

    I don't know if she divorced you, left you, or what the current legal status is of your marriage. If you are no longer married, you need to go through an attorney perhaps or someone she trusts to see if she is interested in seeing you and talking with you to see the changes you have made.

    If she is not interested at all in reconciling with you, then you unfortunately cannot make her want to do so and better move on. If there are children involved, if you have legal rights to see your children, I would assume you have access to talk with your wife. If that access to the children has been taken away, you'd have to get a good attorney to help see if you can be re-evaluated and maybe get a hearing to see if you can get visitation or joint custody rights.

    Good luck.

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