If there was an affordable, easy, anonymous way to get background checks on the new person you were starting to date, would you do it? (Criminal record, spouse, babies, etc.)
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Probably. Haha I'm just mean like that.
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Yeah, the cheapest I know is to talk to the person. Spending time with him would make him reveal a lot specially halfway through that bottle of Vodka.
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No, I don't think so. Aren't relationships meant to be based on trust, even if they are just beginning? I wouldn't want someone to do that to me (although they wouldn't find anything anyway). I would try to find out things about that individual by asking and having a conversation with them not by going behind their back doing a background check. Still it would be interesting to drop into discussion one evening. "So.. your dad did time for arson, huh?"
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I think if you have a reason to believe that there are things like this that the person would be keeping from you then yes. If I had done a back ground check on my soon to be x husband I would have known that he had another wife in another state that he had never divorced. I only say yes if you feel like there's something they are hiding. Don't just back ground check anyone.
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no coz gettin 2 know all about dem is half the fun
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haha the idea would never even cross my mind!
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Nah, I like a little mystery. Besides, I'd rather wait until she trusts me enough to talk about her past. That'd be up to her. Starting a relationship with suspicion -- I don't know. There's something about that whole idea that rubs me wrong.
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