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by mco5150 on May 7th, 2005

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I have liked this girl, but she doesn't know. My best friend likes her, and she says she likes him too, but I think she may still like me. Should I come out and tell her I like her and see if she likes me back?

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  • by Jack Scotty on May 12th, 2005

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    Well you should ask yourself if your friendship with this other guy is more important than attempting to develop a relationship with this woman. Granted we all like to think that we should be mature enough to handle not being able to have the mate that we really want, however, is the relationship with your best friend worth risking by competing for this girl?

    There is nothing wrong with telling the girl how you feel about her. After all, she very well might have the same feelings for you but is using your best friend to get noticed. She is probably showing interest in him in order to get to you. She could very well feel more comfortable about being around your best friend because she has no emotional investment in him the same way that she probably would have in you. Tell her how you feel. The worse that could happen is that she does not like you in the same manner and then you can move on.

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  • by Dr.help on October 22nd, 2009

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    Well friend wat i would do is talk to your best friend and say "hey dude i like this girl alot and can you hold off and let me try to get a shot at her?" if he says yes then woot woot but if its a no dont be mad but
    if you like the girl so much that it hurts you than yes go after her i did and well yeah i found my true love

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  • by Princess Garnet on August 28th, 2009

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    This kind of happened to me. I had a best friend who liked every boy who came around no joke. I like one guy and one ponit and she had a go at me for liking him because she liked him no that happen two times ever though I knew and got on with both boys before she knew them.

    When I ment my now bf she liked him but I liked him before she ment him and when I wnt out with him she when nuts and we had a big fight.

    But he didn't like her and never would and I never go a change to like no one because she liked everyone I liked.

    We'll not friends no more because after we made up she got all bitchy and made up a lot of lies about me.

    If she likes you and you like her your friend wouls understand if hes a good friend.

    But thats just what I think +4

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  • by Sophia on August 28th, 2009

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    If she actually did like him and he likes her, why is nothing happening there?

    I think this could be a recipe for disaster. She may be looking for power and attention and play both you guys off each other. You do not want to ruin a friendship over a girl like this.

    Find another girl and see if this girl pursues you. She may be the kind of girl that is used to getting what she wants. If she does not make you wait around for her, she will be upset and go after you.

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  • by Punkprincess115 on August 14th, 2009

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    well, you should talk to your best friend and see how much he likes her because if his feelings are stronger feelings than yours then you should wait till hes over her because its not good to date your best friend's c rush

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  • by NotTelling on August 14th, 2009

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    you should probably wait until she doesnt like ur friend because you shouldnt date your friends crush you know jsut wait till its kinda done and then go for her.

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  • by YepThatsRight on June 11th, 2011

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    OK take this from a GIRL. If ur best friend likes her and she likes him why isnt something happing between them?! anyway if u like this girl u should ask her out . . . then if she says no just act kool like its no big deal. If she says yes . . . . well than HAVE FUN!!!!!!!!

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