How do I handle the jealous women in my office? My boss adores me and has promoted me and all the women in my office have started treated me awful. Do I just ingore them and continue better myself or do I try to talk to them?
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Were you promoted because your boss adores you, or because you earned it?
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Hello sister I am also suffering from the same situations and finally one of my friend advised me to ignore their activities what they are doing / saying and read books in free time at that time when they are also chatting with each other. And call your friend/relation’s friend etc. to change your mood. You just imagine that you are alone not anyone site with you. Hope for the best, coming time or in future if they are wrong and doing bad things with you they will be punished by god. Ok !!!!!!!!!! Bye and take care.
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why you have given me 0 rating ?
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if he adores your hotness and flirtaciousness then they are right to be mad. If he adores your excelence and superiority then they need grow up. just ignore them. act like you don't know they are hostile. they know you know but they don't know you know they know you know. you know? sorry, it just started and I had to finish it:-P keeping an ace up your sleeve is always a good idea. if anything ever hits the fan your patience (until you need it it is "obliviousness" as far as they know) with their hostility will tip the scales in your favor
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think positive be posiive only ?
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I imagine that you must feel rather 'special' if your boss so obviously 'adores' you? Your advancement is fine if truly earned but if it's just favouritism then your colleagues will naturally feel jealous. It's important that you don't act in any superior manner, be assertive, fair-minded, genuinely kind and interested in teh other women and not false (they'll pick up straight away!) and they'll get over their jealousy. But if you set yourself apart, and give off an aura of 'specialness' (like a spoiled child) then they will shun and despise you and make your work life a misery. Take a good look at yourself, and be honest.
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Your boss gave you a promotion, what have they given you?
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I am also having problem with one woman office mate who is extremely jealous. However, she indeed is a kind of 'people' person. She is really really nice to everyone and trying to make others believe that I am the one who is jealous of her and trying to hurt her. She also has assistance from her cousin who works as human resource in our company and through whom she got the job. I am really in a difficult situation here. Any smart advice?
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