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  • you should ask him how he managed in the past two days before jumping to any conclusions.
  • Ask first - Then go off on him if he couldn't even call you to let you know if he was OK
  • I would have to call the police to cancel the missing persons report. But he better have a darn good excuse.
  • I know what would have happened if I pulled a stunt like that when I was married, but I'd advise getting all the facts before making any life-changing decisions or accusations. If he had the cojones to come home like that, he should have the cojones to tell you the truth.
  • ummm yeah Hes cheating. But just ask him anyway just to see what crap he comes up with. It better be something horrible.
  • He could just drag back out the way he dragged in. He can come back later to collect his things from the front yard.
  • ask.......then bitch. something COULD be up. good luck
  • I would have already packed his stuff. I don't need to ask to know what written on the wall.
  • Get rid of him.
  • This (to me) is inexcusable. Unless you know for a FACT he was abducted by the mafia, or something of the sort, I would seriously question what the hell he was doing. Two days with no phone call? That is inexcusable.
  • ask..or wait to meet the girlfriend
  • After the first night, change the locks.
  • If I disappeared for two nights I had better have a DAMN good explanation (like being dead.) Having him gone for two days is bad enough, but if he comes in like nothing's wrong...then something's wrong. Grab him delicately by his num-nums, and say in a very sweet voice, "Okay, we're not going to hurt each other, are we? Now where were you?"
  • He would have to come home with actual alien probes sticking out of him for me not to toss his butt right back out.
  • time to get a new husband.
  • Sounds like he's messin around but find out what he has to say. Then verify his story as much as possible.
  • Remember that old country song ? D-I-V-O-R-C-E
  • Is that a question or a drunken woman making a statement? Is it possible to answer a question with a question ? What the hell are you talking about? I'm pretty sure you know the answer.
  • He's a CIA operative and you don't want to blow his cover... A) You could start a fight so surveillance thinks he's just a cheater. B) You could ignore it and so you don't draw attention to your own counter-operation C) You could get a divorce so that you can go about business without inter-agency conflict.
  • I get sidetracked sometimes and run into friends and go out... but I'm not married.
  • That's never happened to me, but if it did, he would have a whole lot of explaining to do.
  • I dont have a husband but if I did, and that happened. He better start complaining ot will will be headed for a divorce.
  • He wouldn't come in, I would've changed the locks on the door after the first day and he'd find his things outside the door.
  • He wouldn't, because I'm not dumb enough to marry someone who treats me like dirt.
  • There is nothing to ask him....In todays world with cell phones and pay phones and email and text messaging. there is no reason why he should be that inconsiderate not to call/text/send smoke signals to let you know he is ok. Besides him being inconsiderate (and downright mean) for not calling, he had to have laid his head somewhere over the past 2 days and it wasn't in YOUR marital bed next to YOU. Have a think about who he was laying his head next to for the past 2 days. Sorry to be the bearer of bad news honey, but don't think it is ever to late to leave.

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