Is it wrong to ask your bf to show one of his msn conversations with his best female friend whom you don't know?
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Probably yes. If he has given you no reason to suspect him of being unfaithful then yes its wrong.
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Unless hes given you reason to not trust him yes id think so.
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You might come off as being untrusting.
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yeah it's a little wrong, why do you need to be privy to his private conversations? Unless you feel he is being unfaithful, which is a whole other issue, I don't see why he should. Whats next a tap on his phone?
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... absolutely i'd wanna read it lol .. i wouldn't have a problem if he read mine, so why not...:O)
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If you have trouble trusting your bf, everything is wrong.
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If your boyfriend has a female friend you don't know...that is wrong.
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I ask my husband all the time who hes talking to and vice versa. Its just a way of being considerate of each other. We dont have any trust issues, but it is still nice to know.
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It isn't wrong to ask, but I'll give you the same advice I gave someone else on a similar topic. Be aware that you are about to tell your boyfriend that you have doubts about his commitment to you and expect that he is going to be upset or angry about that. Second, take a little time and do a little soul searching and decide why you feel you have to know what he is talking about and be prepared to discuss that when you talk to him. Because whatever that is, is the root of mistrust that you need to dig out of your relationship before it grows into something worse.
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Let's leave labels like right or wrong out of it. You either trust him or you don't.
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wait a minute, your bf has a best female friend you don't know? why not? I would NOT ask to read the msn conversation. you should trust him. but I would ask to meet the female friend. invite her over to dinner.
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To show you it yes, but to tell you about it no. Showing you isn't just showing his chat but hers as well and unless she agrees to that it is a violation of her privacy. She maybe telling him, as a friend, problems she has which she wouldn't want anyone else to know about. Friends do that.
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..isnt that the ultimate trust though...reading each others stuff..prolly just me then, i mean i wouldn't 'demand' to read stuff like that.. but i wouldn't expect him to hide it from me either ..
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