If your a guy and a girl tells you that they love you before you tell her is that ok? Or should the girl wait for the guy to say it first?
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Is there rules for that too?
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Why should she wait? Saying it first shows reassurance and confidence.
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Love is love, and it should be shared openly and honestly to the beloved! If you love someone you need to say so, there is so little time in this world to waste. You don't have to say "I want to marry you and have children and grow old etc..", if you have a feeling of love it is just that, and no one should be afraid to do so.
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What has gender got to do with it? . It is about feelings, and I can't see what could possibly be wrong with a woman declaring her feelings...
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Does it really matter as long as they have taken some thought into it and really mean what they say?
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There aren't written rules for how relationships should unfold. I think one of the reasons so many people have a hard time with relationships is that they spend a whole lot of time and effort trying to make their relationships fit an arbitrary mold and certain set of rules instead of just allowing their relationships to flow along a path that is comfortable.
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People are SO ignorant, there are absolutely rigid RULES that govern love and relationships. Para A, Section 3, subsection 56 of the Book of Love states as follows: "The male is required to say "I love you" first. If the female says it first, the entire relationship contract is considered null and void and you will have to begin again at the first date, but only after a period of non-dating of one (1) year." There are also a list of rules governing how early in the relationship you are allowed to say it and how often, but I didn't want to get into too many details here.
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