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by justwizdom on April 1st, 2007

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I was 3 months pregnant 2 days ago and my babies heart stopped beating when i found out i went crazy im not handling it very well i feel lost and i cant find my way to get passed it. it feels like a part of me is missing.

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  • by Anonymous on April 1st, 2007

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    Oh dear, i can't even begin to imagine how hard that is. I'm so sorry to hear that. You have only given yourself a couple days, and theres a process of letting go that you need to go through. The hurt is painful at times, and something left your body that you were excited for and looking forward to. You aren't going to handle it well, because you've given yourself no time to handle it. I'm sure sometimes you wake up in disbelief, but the thing is time seems to heal. I'm not saying that time ever makes you forget but it makes things a little easier. The baby was a part of you, and thats a tough subject to get into, because you're feeling the missing parts of that life gone. How hard it is for you to even begin to grip, some times situations happen for a reason we're all very unaware of. We all just know its unfair. I have to send you these lyrics from this country song, its called "my name", by George Canyon.

    It’s cold in here feels like everything’s upside down
    I can feel you talking but I can barely make out the sound
    I've been kicking around these parts, feels like a year
    I’m gonna change this world if I ever get out of here
    She wants to dress me in pink, paint’s my bedroom blue
    And I just laugh to myself, cause only I know the truth
    This love is my only emotion
    Haven’t learned any fear any pain
    It’s kind of funny with all this commotion
    I guess they’ve got me, to blame
    They don’t even know my name
    They don’t even know my name

    Well I’ve never felt so ready, think it’s finally time
    Cause that big old world is waiting, and it’s mine all mine
    Just then everything got real quiet, it got real bright
    And a man took my hand said don’t worry, Mommas gonna be alright
    Then he opened the gate, & I followed him in
    Said you can wait right, here till it’s your turn again
    And his love is the one true emotion
    Heaven knows no fear no pain
    I never got to set my wheels in motion
    They loved me just the same
    And they didn't even know my name
    Didn’t even know my name
    You loved me just the same
    And you didn’t even know my name

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  • by Grammy Robin on April 1st, 2007

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    I am so sorry for you. Two days is not enough time to get passed it, if there ever is enough time to....who knows.
    Talk to someone, the father, your mom or maybe a friend.

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  • by hunter03 on August 19th, 2011

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    My son died the same way in 2003. For now-just cry, write in a journal (to your baby, if you feel comfortable doing that). Do whatever you need to do to get through this-walk, run, eat, do nothing. Slowly, you will get a bit of strength and then time takes over and the fog will lift. You'll be able to mourn along with others, plan a memorial for a birthday, etc.

    You're not alone, it's happened to thousands of us and we've all joined support groups to cope.

    Now: take time for you and talk about it to anyone and everyone.

    You WILL get through this.

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