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I believe in god, but I despise religion. Is that normal or weird?

By horny paki Asked Apr 1 2007 10:24AM
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by LynfromNM on Apr 1, 2007 at 10:31 am Permalink

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I don't think it's weird, and I think you might be surprised at how many believers share your distaste for religion.
Religion is, in MY OPINION, a way to demonstrate your system of belief, as defined by a group of like-minded people. If you are not in agreement with the way a particular religion demonstrates its faith, I think it would be hypocritical to designate yourself as a member of it. You must define your own relationship the higher power you believe in. There are probably bits and pieces that religions can contribute to your perception, but in no way should you feel obligated to label yourself in any way.
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Avatar LynfromNM Oct, 29 2007 at 02:28 PM
Oh, that makes perfect sense!
Avatar Anonymous Nov, 06 2008 at 12:21 PM
Very Good Answer LYN!!!!God Speed to you..God Bless!
Avatar Nevermind Jun, 10 2009 at 09:08 AM
They are doing the 'recruitment' thing. That's why their responses are weird.

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by Stableboy on Apr 2, 2007 at 10:56 am Permalink

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Religion at it's best is organized and formalized spirituality -- a well designed path for spiritual development that has been refined and honed over the years.

Religion at it's worst is brainwashing, suppressive, and provides the basis for violence, evil, and oppression.

So I think it's a mistake to just despise religion out of hand: the passion with which you hold that view will preclude you from seeing both sides, which is important if you want to understand anything thoroughly.

Also, just a footnote: belief in God is not a requirement for all religions, so there's a bit of cross-talk in your question: you can have religion without a belief in God, you can have a belief in God without religion, you can have spirituality which includes or does not include God and omits religion, etc. The range of possible variations on these elements is pretty wide.
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Avatar Nevermind Jun, 10 2009 at 09:14 AM
Some atheists say they are out of spite to religions. I believe that religion is Anti-God because rather than talk about God or talk to God they want to wrestle your mind until you give in. One day it will get violent... oh, wait, that already happened.
Avatar tboarder Jun, 13 2009 at 07:37 PM
Responding to anonymous above, i feel sorry that you should feel sorrow for Darrol. Why is it that his view on life should be disrespected by your belief when one is built on what is known and the other, what is thought to be known. I'll leave you to decide who is who.
But i agree wholeheartedly with Sableboy. Religion, as anything does, has positives and negatives. Unfortunately for myself, the negatives over the years have accumulated and religion itself seems a shell. With it, for me, the concept of god was dispersed, although they are not implicitly connected.
I attended Buddhism teachings for some time, finding solace in the meditations and moral lessons, but becoming frustrated with the premise of reincarnation and other, more 'magical', elements of the teachings. Buddhism can be easily seen as a philosophy until reincarnation and spiritual karma is brought in, at which point i thing it places its toe over the line into the world of religions.
Avatar HasntBeen Jun, 14 2009 at 08:37 AM
Well in Zen, that stuff is generally discarded. I think Zen is the purest form of Buddhism -- study yourself, forget metaphysics... the answers that matter can be found by observing your own life.
 
My general feeling is that religion starts out being beneficial for most people, and then becomes a prison which prevents further development. Even the Buddha recognized this, saying that one must discard the raft after crossing the river, not become attached to it.

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by jt007m on Apr 1, 2007 at 8:06 pm Permalink

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That's not weird at all. That's true faith. Your beliefs are what matter... not some system of worship.
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Avatar ThisAnonymous1 Apr, 20 2009 at 09:21 PM
I agree with you. Well-stated - short and to the point.+

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by American Idle on Apr 2, 2007 at 10:59 am Permalink

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Very normal. You hate "man-made" organized religions, dogmas and doctrines. Me too.
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Avatar American Idle Aug, 20 2007 at 06:02 AM
Grow up and use spell check, stupid.
Avatar vasti Apr, 09 2008 at 06:22 PM
I was just reading the thoughtful and well written opinions above, when I stumbled with Barjacob's comment. I wouldn't like to add anything to the wise and profound answers given by Stableboy and LynfromNM. The spelling and composition skills of Mr. Barjacob explain it all. It is not his fault.
Avatar Lil Confused Jul, 17 2008 at 06:05 PM
Yeah, barjacob's right. Grow up and let other people tell you what to think about God. Your so self centered for not joining a cult and trying to convert everyone else.

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by quack is whack on Apr 1, 2007 at 10:33 am Permalink

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No, it's not wierd. I feel the same way and know many others who share this view.
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Avatar Final_Starman Apr, 07 2007 at 09:50 AM
I feel that way too!
Avatar InChristAlone Oct, 15 2009 at 01:44 PM
Religion is a group as said previously. Faith is what matters most. To believe in Gods word, study it, and understand it, it what God wants you to do. Nowhere in the bible does it indicate that God wants you to join a religion. He just wants you to believe in him and follow in the footsteps of Christ. When people ask me what religion I am, I say, "I don't have a religion, I'm a Christ follower."

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by Icebox April on Apr 1, 2007 at 8:02 pm Permalink

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I think it's pretty normal.

I think religion has more to do with rules than with God, so I choose not to be a part of it. But I do believe in God.
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by Jodie44 on Apr 2, 2007 at 11:07 am Permalink

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Normal, or should be, anyway. Religion is philosophy - not God. Organized religion seems to work against God sometimes. It gets in between God and people, IMHO.
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by pam i am on May 21, 2007 at 7:21 pm Permalink

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I think it's normal and part of the spiritual evolutionary process. Someone once told me to think of religion and spirituality like seeing someone pointing at the moon--the pointer being religion and the moon, spirit. Instead of looking where the hand is pointing--the moon--we become enamored with the pointer. We can become bogged down and enamored with the "rules and regs" and forget what those point toward--spirit. Instead of a path, it becomes the end result to many.
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Avatar Stableboy May, 21 2007 at 08:33 PM
Nice answer.

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by mousegirl27 on Apr 1, 2007 at 8:09 pm Permalink

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I think faith is what you believe in personally - and that communion that takes place between you and who or what you believe in. Religion is something created by man for man - the rules, the dates, procedures, things to say and eat - all those I think people create for themselves and choose to believe that in conjunction with a faith. I'm with you - I believe in a higher being but I find that religion is too tied up in falsities and politics and just plain unreasonable practices.
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by spreader on Jan 7, 2008 at 4:18 am Permalink

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IF TWO persons were arguing over which is the true religion, and asked you to sit as ‘judge’ to determine who was right, would you want to do so? if so Those who are sincerely searching for truth generally recognize that there must be a God and that he reasonably would reveal his will and offer answers about why we are here, what life means and what the future holds for us. A religion that teaches lies cannot be true. The greatest prophet that ever walked on earth stated: “God is a Spirit, and those worshiping him must worship with spirit and truth.”—John 4:24Obviously it would be impossible to study all the thousands of religions inside and outside Christendom before making a choice. However, if—as Jesus said—we use truth and fruitage as touchstones, it is possible to identify true religion.
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Avatar Anonymous Sep, 28 2008 at 12:23 PM
any religion is true by it's own rules. Christianity looks pretty silly from outside. By no means all people see a need to have faith in a supreme being. Manmade gods are pretty daft, they have arms legs and long white beards. Why? Because man cannot envisage abstract thought.
If gods exist they are more abstract than string theory. And so abstract that believing in them or not would make no difference.
Just get on with life and help other people, not to please a manmade god but because it'll make the planet better.
Avatar spreader Sep, 29 2008 at 12:40 AM
That your loss
Avatar InChristAlone Oct, 15 2009 at 01:48 PM
WOW... I pray that the truth will be revealed to you before its too late.


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