How do you prove you love someone with actions? My boyfriend says he believes I love him.. but wants me to prove it in actions and I have no idea how.
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Kyliebaby
ANSWERS: 14
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He's asking for sex.
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Nah, we've already had sex. He just wants me to prove it with actions.. and I really dont know how.
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Hes trying to guilt you into performing certain sex acts. Tell him to prove he loves you by not forcing you to do something you're not comfortable with.
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Sounds like he wants to take this situation to a "way more intimate " level than you're ready for. Any time a male wants to you to "prove" you care for him, don't you believe it. You do not need to prove anything. If he doesn't feel in his heart that you care for him, he does not care for you, and may just be useing you as another "man toy" for his personal satisfaction, nothing more. Please don't be upset, I was a teacher, and have seen boys treat young girls this way just to use them.
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Is it me? Am I the one that's going to have to say it? OK then, BJ, he wants a BJ, your man wants a BJ, yes, yes, you've had sex, sure, I'm sure you enjoyed it, but you didn't have the sex HE wants, so start with a completely selfless BJ, I'm telling you, I'm right.
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You cannot, "Love" is the term humans use to describe the hormonal surge that accompanies puberty or ovulation. It's an internal "emotional" experience which is completely subjective.
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Tell him that you are with him, right? Well, that's proof enough. If you didn't love him, you wouldn't be with him. If that's not it then he wants a BJ like Omar said. +4
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If he need for you to take a bullet for him or to push him out of the way of a bus that hits you instead, he'll have to wait for a while. If it isn't some kind of sex you haven't had yet, then he is lacking in trust. He somehow wants you to prove your love for him because he doesn't trust you. I'd look into getting a new guy.
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If he hasn't told you what he wants, then he needs to. Of course he could be playing you at your own game, if you expect him to get your hints without you having to explain what you actually want, like my wife does and ex did, it might be he's giving you a taste of your own medicine! It could simply be that he wants more sex, it's generally a sure fire way of showing your man that you still find him desirable! It could be he wants something different, or wants you to show him what you'd like him to do, women are frustratingly coy about telling their men what they want in bed, but hardly shy at all about criticising if they don't get what they want!!
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There's nothing to prove in true love. If the fact that you love him is not enough then maybe he dosn't love you...
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sounds like he just wants sex.
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I agree love is a verb. He wants what we all want signs that you "see" him and accept him as he is. Little things like sharing a few of his interests, wanting to spend time with him, letting him have his share of the spotlight. Making sure he knows he matters to you in whatever language he speaks. Ask him what he would consider proof.
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he wants a sandwich i'm kidding as a guy i'm ussually the one who hast to prove i love my girlfriend but if youve already screwed him i don't know how you would prove it
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What a scary person. I read a good book a while back, I think it was called, "If you love me", it was about a father who convinced his daughter and mistress to kill his wife, how? he said, "If you love me prove it". You are with him, he knows you love him, asking for proof is merely a controlling issue.
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