Help him to learn to make love like a younger man, and then you will not need a younger man. +5

Do not "fight" it, you will only cause yourself increasing stress & unhappiness by trying to deny it. It's like the more you try NOT to think about something, the more you do! Instead, adapt what you have to what you (both) need. A relationship that cannot adapt cannot last or grow. Peoples' needs (& desires) change with time, ebbing & flowing like the tide or any other natural cycle in life. You have humanly urges just as much as we can be sure he surely does as well. So instead of denying & suppressing these, ACKNOWLEDGE them, openly & honestly. If you cannot do that with him, it is yet another indicator you will only be in for increasing dissatisfaction with the relationship. Try backing it off a bit, to allow casual dating for you both! Most guys surely wouldn't mind having a sure thing PLUS fun freedoms, without having to be sneaky or scandalous! There are many great books on open relationships if this would be your ideal scenario. If not, perhaps it is just best to let him know you feel the gap between you is something you have tried to overlook but cannot escape it. You both deserve happiness, and being tied up with someone keeping you settling for less than you are happy with would be a shame for you both, as it keeps you missing out on a potentially better match found elsewhere.

And how old is he? If he cannot match the younger man's body or power or stamina, he has let himself go physically. If he is not in the gym doing strength training and if his body is not ar.s hard as as a man 30 years his junior, his letting himself go. And he will continue to lose power and stamina. Further, an older man that does push his body and maintain his strengh will develop attitudes about lovemaking that are very desirable to a woman, that the younger man does not have. If he's soft, he needs to get to the gym AND a trainer. Don't settle for anything less. I just did 50 pushups tonight and am in the gym 2-5 times per week WITH a trainer (although I have been doing it for 15 years). And I'm not even going to tell you my age......older than he, I assure you.