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RTDF!!!!! Long time no see gorgeous. . Just tell him you want him to stop, that it makes you feel undesirable or whatever it makes you feel. Or you could always ask him how he'd feel if you started dancing, that tends to make guys jealous and then hopefully he'll understand your position better. . Hope that help. Don't be a stranger.
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If discussing your feelings with him over this is going to start a fight. . . . . . . . . .YOU'RE WITH THE WRONG GUY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! P.S. - And THAT'S true even if it DOESN'T start a fight!
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Tell him how you feel. Personally, I'll feel disrespected if my S/O visit such place more than once in life.
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If you're that worried about it, it sounds like you should be questioning your relationship.
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If he was doing this before he met you then this is just his thing. If this really bothers you for the long haul then cut loose. I know dudes who do the same thing. Basically they like seeing naked ladies gyrate and it has nothing to do with you. Telling a guy to change a habit will almost always lead to a fight.
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That is really disrespectful and you need to talk to him about it, if it ends as a fight then there's something going on with him and you need to do something about that. +5
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Give him a taste of his own medicine. Go to a male strip club. See how he reacts.
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He has a condition sometimes called arrested development. Under that condition, certain fascinations with things like porn and staged nudity do not get "outgrown" and replaced with healthy relationships. There could be several reasons it would disturb you. Among those reasons may be a perception of having to measure up to the fantasy girls, even though this really is his thing and, again, has nothing to do with you. He can overcome this if he wishes. You can only communicate your displeasure. If he wishes to make an effort he can try to stay away from the clubs. It would be a bit like dealing with someone with any other type of addiction or bad habit. It would take time and always lurk in the shadows. If he is a rare nice man in all other ways, it may be worth working with him through this if he would make some kind of effort to see things your way.
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I use to work for a vending company and they had cigarette machines in them. I would go in during the day time and leave without trying to see those women. It was just a job and it embarrassed me to be in there. I am a christian and I made sure I was out of the place before 3:00 p.m. I would ignore and not speak to the women when they spoke to me either.
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