by page4cats on November 22nd, 2009

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Do you think it is wrong that I've wanted to be married since my Junior year in High School? Plus that I'm only 18 and a freshmen in college wanting this?

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  • by Sharona Life is a Tale Told by an Idiot on November 22nd, 2009

    Sharona Life is a Tale Told by an Idiot

    Since I don't know how intelligently you have prepared for this step I can't answer. But the fact that you are confused enough to ask sends up alarm bells. What do you think marriage is all about that you are dreaming of this day? It is a lot of work and not some happy ever after that you may be imagining.

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  • by spock's brain on November 22nd, 2009

    spock's brain

    I don't think "right" or wrong enters into it. The question is WHY you want this.
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    We all have a tendency to think the grass is greener where we are not and sometimes we make uninformed or hurried decisions as a result.
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    I am wondering if you do not have a romanticized view of married life or are not perhaps hoping it will solve or remove difficulties that are a normal part of youth?
    it may, but liekly will not.
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    I am also not sure that yu will not look back on your decision ten years from now and long for the normal activities youth engage in.
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    You do not mention if there is a specific s/o in your life or if it is just the idea of marriage that appeals.
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    In the case of the former, I would suggest you wait. If it is true love, it will not disapear.
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    In the case of the latter, you are likely trying to run away from something, which seldom works. No matter what you might be running away from, it is possible that what you run to may be even worse than what you are running away from. The out of the frying pan into the fire sort of thing.

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  • by Djinn on November 22nd, 2009

    Djinn

    Not at all wrong. +3

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