I am seeing a new guy. We have a great time when we are together, have great sex, loads of fun & he loves talking to me on the phone. But, if I want to get together, I always have to initiate it. Is he more interested in me as a friend?I really like him!

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• If he is into it only for the sex, why is he more interested in chatting over the phone than actually having sex?

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  by Anonymous on November 19th, 2009

• I don't know your relationship, but I would assume chatting on the phone leads to you being together which leads to sex. Then I'm guessing your the one who has to call him and not the other way around.

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  by Gideon on November 19th, 2009

• No, he calls me as often and mainly when I call, he is the one who has texted me,asking whether or not it is possible for a chat on the phone.
  Chatting on the phone hasn't lead that much to getting together, and when it has, it's mainly not for sex..
  Usuaully when we get together it is because I have either asked when we should get together or going out in a group of people we have disappeared together. He loves the sex we have, no doubt, but I don't think sex is what is driving this thing.

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  by Anonymous on November 20th, 2009

• Well, probably the best thing you can do is sit and talk to him. Ask him where the relationship is going. If he enjoys talking to you and you don't think sex is driving the bus, he may respect you and be taking a slower pace. Let him know how you feel and be honest with each other. Good luck.

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  by Gideon on November 20th, 2009

• I have a feeling that sex is the last thing on his mind. He is extremely afraid of commitment. We spent many hours on the phone again last night. He told me he loves my intelligence. I am just going to let it take me where it takes me.
  
  Thanks for your help!

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  by Anonymous on November 26th, 2009

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