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i got a question to ask you , how long were you two together and how long ago did you break up with her and why did you break up with her ? if i was you id avoid singel mothers from now on . becaues i recently got dumped by my boy-friend of over six years and the fact that iam a singel mother , singel mothers are usualy looking to find a decent loving guy who would be willing to take over some of the burdens for them , they are looking for marriege .
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Take some time for you. Children are a blessing and you have every right to feel attached to her children. your fear of dating other single parents in common. no one ever wants to the child get hurt and unfortunately they do get attached and those relationships arent about two people its about 3 or more. think about your relationship with her and her child. was the relationship good? did that child ever pose a problem for you in the relationship? only you can decide for yourself wht you need. but if you choose to date single mothers agin thats great just now you are aware of that third person involved. but i can tell you, children bounce back, you will likely struggle with it longer than that child will. i am with you on this one, my relationship with a single dad recently ended and i am not sure if thats a road i would like to go down again or not. i love that child and miss her do much. but i keep remembering we did what was best for us at the time and if its better for her dad this way its probably better for her too. good luck
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I TOTALY DISAGREE THAT SINGLE PARENTS ARE ONLY LOOKING FOR MARRAGE IN A RELATIONSHIP, I AM A SINGLE MOTHER AND ANY RELATIONSHIP I HAVE BEEN HAS BEEN TAKEN VERY SLOWLY, I HAVE NEVER INTRODUCED MY DAUGHTER TO ANY BLOKE I HAVE DATED UNLESS I WAS 100% SURE ABOUT HIM. AND BEEN 100% SURE ISNT ALWAYS RIGHT! IT MEANS I ONLY SEE THAT PERSON FROM TIME TO TIME BUT.. IM SORRY BEEN A SINGLE MOTHER IS TWICE AS MUCH WORK AS BEEN IN A TWO PARENT FAMILY, A CHILDS LIFE IS SHORT LIVED, IN A BLINK OF AN EYE YOUR CHILD IS GROWN UP AND DATEING THEMSELVES.. IF YOUR NOT PREPARED TO TAKE THE BACK SEAT FOR THE CHILDS SAKE, WELL I PERSONLY DONT THINK YOUR MATURE ENOUGH TO DATE IN THE FIST PLACE. DONT PAINT ALL SINGLE PARENTS WITH THE SAME BRUSH.
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Do you mean due to her attachment to her own child or what? I can understand you may feel jealous of the moms relationship with her child, but come on now. Understand that a bond between mother and child is virtually unbreakable. She loves you and wants a relationship with you,otherwise she wouldnt have begun a relationship with you in the 1st place.
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